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The gym's starting to get really depressing
Topic Started: May 9 2008, 05:48 PM (647 Views)
TJ

As some of you know, I've had my eye on a girl that I've seen at the gym the past couple of weeks. The problem is, me being as socially retarded as I am, I never said a word to her. She was there again today, and still, I said nothing to her.

To top it off, I'm really starting to get the feeling that I have no chance at getting a girlfriend. I'm socially retarded, and I look pathetic compared to the other guys at the gym. Granted, I can eventually get myself some muscle, but that's going to take a while, and that doesn't stop me from feeling depressed while I'm still pathetic looking. I have nothing at all to attract girls. I would say my looks are mediocre at best, and assuming I did ever end up talking to a girl, and she was fine with the way I looked, my personality leaves much to be desired. I'm sure you all know by now that I'm a horrible person.
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Socially retarded? Hmmm, I think that accurately described myself about four years ago. Therapy changed a lot in me.

Sure, you're not the nicest person in the world. But you can work on being nicer. And if you find someone you really like, it may be easier to be nicer to them than to others.

And if someone only wants you for your looks, they're not worth being with anyway (my opinion of course).

*stops before I accidentally start to sound smug and cause F to explode*
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TJ

My mom's searching for a new therapist for me, or will be soon, I think. My past with therapists tells me that they're just a waste of time, but I'm willing to try a new one.

Being nicer isn't exactly easy for me. Then again, half of you probably wouldn't recognize my messages with Jenny back when we were together, and even to some extent these days as being mine. Of course, the internet and real life are very different places. I wouldn't count too much on being able to act nice in real life. I can probably count the number of times I've complimented people in real life on a single hand. Well, maybe both hands, but that's not much better.

I wouldn't want someone who liked me just for my looks, but what I'm getting at is, is that it's hard for someone to feel interested in you right away if you're not very good looking. Looks really help; without them, I think I'll have a hard time getting far with girls.
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Have you ever considered group therapy? That helped me. You can meet others your own age that have similar problems and it's a group effort to help everyone.

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"There are as many truths out there as there are people to tell them. Perhaps it's best simply to choose the truth with which you are most comfortable."
~ Knoll, Fire Emblem: The Sacred Stones

"Choosing not to decide is still a choice."
~ Cybil Alinda, Tactics Ogre: The Knight of Lodis

"I'm very serious about not being serious about what I do."
~ Ric Orlando, two-time Chopped Champion

"Basketball cheesesteak."
~ Eidon, Magi-Nation
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TJ

I've never considered it; it's just not something that ever really appealed to me, but I guess it's worth a shot.
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It didn't appeal to me until I forced into it. :lol:
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~ Knoll, Fire Emblem: The Sacred Stones

"Choosing not to decide is still a choice."
~ Cybil Alinda, Tactics Ogre: The Knight of Lodis

"I'm very serious about not being serious about what I do."
~ Ric Orlando, two-time Chopped Champion

"Basketball cheesesteak."
~ Eidon, Magi-Nation
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get smug cheese, i won't explode, he needs the smugness!

and i know why you would get so smug, now that i am experiencing what your experiencing
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[23:00] Byrgg: my mom said it was getting too dark for her and she's getting turned off i think v_v

CotF1692 (07:18:28 pm): you suck
ojajrrj (07:18:34 pm): Only if you're nice.
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*sigh* Operation: GBAG was a failure. I've never been to therapy, but i hear it can work wonders.
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just talk to her >.> seriously say hi when you pass by and stuff
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[23:00] Byrgg: my mom said it was getting too dark for her and she's getting turned off i think v_v

CotF1692 (07:18:28 pm): you suck
ojajrrj (07:18:34 pm): Only if you're nice.
"Haha your mage can't read!" -My mom
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That what was planned. Just to say hi. Who knows, she might like you.
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TJ

F and Django, what don't you get about unnattractive social retard? I can't just "say hi," and there's no way she likes me. I wonder if she's even single; I somehow doubt it, with her looks.
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Hey byrgg. Fuck you
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[23:00] Byrgg: my mom said it was getting too dark for her and she's getting turned off i think v_v

CotF1692 (07:18:28 pm): you suck
ojajrrj (07:18:34 pm): Only if you're nice.
"Haha your mage can't read!" -My mom
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Don't you know? Love will find a way. LOVE WILL FIND A WAY! THE LAWS OF NATURE BE DAMNED. [/cruise control] -Kijo
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May 9 2008, 07:34 PM
Hey byrgg. Fuck you

I don't think savvy would like that.
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i couldn't think of anything else to day v.v your gonna stay alone i guess, until you get out of your social retardedness and talk to some girls. can't garuntee you will get anyone, but its not going to make things much different for you
I AM ALIVE. JOIN ME IN LIFE MY BROTHERS AND LIKE ONE SISTER!

[23:00] Byrgg: my mom said it was getting too dark for her and she's getting turned off i think v_v

CotF1692 (07:18:28 pm): you suck
ojajrrj (07:18:34 pm): Only if you're nice.
"Haha your mage can't read!" -My mom
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Don't you know? Love will find a way. LOVE WILL FIND A WAY! THE LAWS OF NATURE BE DAMNED. [/cruise control] -Kijo
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TJ

I'm not counting on being able to overcome my social retardation any time soon, if ever.
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