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What people think of you
Topic Started: Aug 26 2008, 10:52 AM (99 Views)
Onelove
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Hello I am 30 yo and married to a great man he knows that I am bi. we also have 4 children. my question is we are looking for a friend (girlfriend) to have fun with but most women say we shouldnt have gotten married or had kids. Its like we cant have a life b/c I'm Bi and we love being with women


What should I do????
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Anderia
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I think that whatever you want to do in your relationship should be between you and the people that are involved. You can't let people tell you how to live your life or what you should or shouldn't be doing. Just because they feel you should be in a monogamy relationship doesn't mean they are right. It's just their view of things and you have a different view. So do your thing girl!
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Sobriquet
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I agree with Anderia. No matter who you are, there will always be people out there who do not agree with the way you live your life. We can't let those people effect our decisions. If we did we would never get anywhere, because one person will tell you one way it right, and another will tell you the complete opposite. If we spent all our time and energy trying to please others, we'd literally be stuck in one spot.. Left confused, and unsatisfied..

If you and your husband have the same views, and obviously you do, and this is something you both want, which obviously it is.. Don't let others stop you from doing it..

All I would suggest is that you figure out a way to do it to where your kids are not exposed.. Because that can be very confusing to children.

Anyway, welcome to the board! I hope you like it here. :D
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