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Coming and Going; A thread for personal updates
Topic Started: Jan 3 2010, 07:57 PM (2,701 Views)
Phi Chisym
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I was trying to be suttle and think my age, ya know; thinking about the things that DPhi could probably get past me...
Cthulhu's methods...no comment.
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Phi Chisym
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It's 10:39 pm...

I'd went to bed early cause I was feeling rather worn...and the phone rang me awake.

My husband just informed me that my best friend was shot and killed bher boy friend, and her two year old daughter is missing.

Now, after the tears have dried, I'm wide awake, and wanting to hunt down that bastard.. Sorry...

So, I will probably be around, but don't expect much...just me being idle. I'm kinda drifting right now, cause I really don't need this with all that is rotation around me now, but it happens, right? But it shouldn'd have happened to her.

And Charleigh, her daughter, is our miracle child at church. She was not suppose to be born, was not suppose to live with the fullness of health, but she'd overcome so much to become such a beautiful little deva. (Another actress) I'm her photographer and me and her mom were about to get started on working a few head shots for her so we could set her up with my cousin's talent agency...

So, keep Charleigh in mind for me guys, help me bring her back. I'm trying not to fear the worst, but the cloud I'm already under is making that rather difficult. Still, I'll probably be around, but don't expect much. And sorry again for such drama, but I can't call anyone right now, and I'm scared to put anything on FB cause her boyfriend is still on the loose and he's an FBer.

I'm just so F'in mad right now, and numb. Figured the best way to deal with this, so I can rest tonight, is to just write it out. They are family to me, Charleigh's my god daughter... So, sorry again...and laters.

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Otter
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Oh my god... I am so sorry, Phi. My heart goes out to you again, and to Charleigh. I hope for the best for all of you. =( There is absolutely nothing for you to apologize for, by all means do whatever you have to that will do anything to help you feel better. We're here for you.
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EnigmaticSevens
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Is in pure and utter concurrence with Ott.
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Phi Chisym
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Thanks guys.

I just found out this morning from her cousin that Charleigh is with her daddy, but he's avoiding everyone's calls. Which is understandable, but he did call our Pastor, who also called me too. So, I feel better about that.

Still, it's hard. I work with her cousin, so when I finally calmed down and came to work, Tammy saw me and started me up again. She informed me of everything that had happened...which pissed me off even more. It was all in cold blood. He didn't even give her a chance.

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Mavrick
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I'm glad to hear that the little one is safe. But, I'm sorry to hear about it Phi. I'm here if ya need a shoulder/ ear to listen to ya. <3
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Otter
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I'm glad that Charleigh, at least, is okay. Like Mav, I'm here for anything you need.
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Phi Chisym
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Thankie again, guys. I'm way better now after talking with the family and all, and seeing Charleigh. ^^ Funerals Fri., so I'll go through my little moment there and continue on. And the boyfriend is in custody. They're saying he confessed to everything, so no cookies for him.

And my mother in law is doing way better. Her lungs are stable enough for them to start really treating them and the CHF. She will probably be in ICU for another week.

So, I'm breathing a little better, but still sleep is not coming to me...which explains that crappy SLD post I did late late late at night.
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Otter
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Good news at last! I'm glad you're feeling better, and that your mother in law is doing better. =)

(And the SLD post is fine. =P)
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LiriFairy
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I won't be online tomorrow, March 6th, at all. Not even to lurk, like have been doing lately. I'll be out of town. As well, next weekend doesn't look too good either. My birthday is in 6 days, and I'm having friends over next Fri.

And I'm sorry I've been so scarce. My teachers have decided to give me tons of homework, and I've got three other sites I take care of and such. I will try my hardest to get posts up next week between Monday and Wednesday. But I'm not going to promise or anything.

If you need me, PM me or poke me on AIM. I'll try to be on there some. I still love you all. :] <3

~Liri
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Otter
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Aw, I understand. Oddly, I seem to have been having a bit of a lull in homework recently. (At least, I haven't been stressing out quite so much about it. Not to mention that I haven't actually been doing all of it...)

Anyway, I shan't pester you about posting in HFME and whatnot. =P I know you'll post when you can.
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Otter
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Okay, couple of announcements.

1) My iPhone slipped out if my pocket earlier, fell screen first on the tile floor, and is now cracked and out of use. I'm going to try to get if fixed tomorrow, but fucking Apple charges almost as much as the cost of the iPhone itself for fixing something that takes about 15 minutes, so if we can find somewhere that does it cheaper but takes longer, we're gonna go for that. If so, I'll probably be on significantly less cuz that's usually the only way I can check on things. =/

2) My spring break is next week and I'm gonna be in Florida. If I have my iPhone I will try to post, but if not, I don't know I'd there's gonna be wifi for my iPod touch or my dad's laptop. I might be able to steal my family's iPhone occassionally, but I probably won't be posting without my own.
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Phi Chisym
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FYI, feeling horrible. My doctor said that I'm having an anxiety attack....in a state of perpectual hyperventilation! Meaning, I need to slow down and breathe.

So, I'm taking a few days more off from RPing and such, cause I still have other issues pending a closing due date that I must attend to. If you see me, I'll probably wil be posting little things - nothing to extravagant and all, just enough to keep my charries in play. Still, don't expect anything.

If an GM's need to move my charrie for any reason, to keep them in their place in any RP, you have my permission.
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Otter
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Aww! *huggles and cookies for Phi* Just relax and feel better. =)
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EnigmaticSevens
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Feel Better PHI! In the eternal imitation of the Brits, Keep Calm and Carry On!

Oh, and an explanation for my spotty attendance on the site: So yeah, Sevens found a new job (*flail* *spasm* *rejoice*) after a few depressing months of unemployment (interspersed by the joy that can only be had from a year off uni). So a lot a prep/doctor visits (bloody hospital policy and their TB tests be damned!), ate up a significant portion of time these last few weeks.

Incidentally, if my theory is correct, while I'll be seen less... I'll actually be posting more now that I have a lovely drain on time in exchange for monetary sustenance.
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