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ELUSIVE JIM'S PROBLEM PAGE; Got a problem? - Let Jim Fix It
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Topic Started: Jan 21 2008, 12:16 PM (14,666 Views)
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ELUSIVEJIM
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Mar 11 2008, 02:37 PM
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- AndyW76,Mar 11 2008
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- ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 11 2008
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- AndyW76,Mar 11 2008
- 11:37 AM
Put like that, Jim, I guess you could be right. I just based my advice on the fact that I don't 100% know the situation or people involved and gave the benefit of the doubt. The more I think about it, the more I actually agree with you. This girl sounds like she messes with people's heads. Also, yeah, why should she be allowed to see someone else when Shadow Stu-E is waiting to be with her. If the situation was reversed, I bet she wouldn't be anywhere near as charitable.
When I broke up with my Ex, I was still in love with her for quite a while and couldn't accept that it was over. During that time she took advantage, using my good nature to weasle favours out of me. It was only when I realised what a cynical bitch she was that I saw sense.
Shadow Stu-E, don't let your lingering feelings fool you. You only end up playing the mug and end up even more hurt. Sorry about my previous advice, I was trying to see things on the bright sde and sometimes that isn't always the best way and can leave you vunerable.
Yer mate i have tended to be like you and try and see the best in people but when it gets to a stage you know yourself its over but you do not want to admit it. Admitting this is the hardest part for anyone but in the end it gets very messy and you get VERY messed up. Been there not doing it again. Well.................
Well, my break up of last year was my first, so I guess I haven't have all of the naivety kicked out of me yet.
Well mate hopefully once will be your limit as it does not get any easier but you do become more wise to what is happening.
Well you try too
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ELUSIVEJIM
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Mar 11 2008, 02:38 PM
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- Lord Tau,Mar 11 2008
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People say "it's better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all". But judging my what I've read here, I'm not so sure that is the case.
No it is better to have loved.
Its the break up that sucks
Saying that if she is the ONE it will not break
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stradlin24
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Mar 11 2008, 02:40 PM
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I definitely don’t wish we never met
I’m still a long way from getting back to normality but the more you try and get on with things the easier it becomes
No doubt I’ve got some interesting months ahead! I don’t give a damn what people might say behind my back either, if they can’t say it too my face then I’m not bothered, are they that scared of me?
I’ve managed to occupy myself pretty well over the last few weeks
And I’ll be needing my battle armour on very soon
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Lord Tau
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Mar 11 2008, 02:45 PM
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- ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 11 2008
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- Lord Tau,Mar 11 2008
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People say "it's better to have loved and lost than never have loved at all". But judging my what I've read here, I'm not so sure that is the case.
No it is better to have loved. Its the break up that sucks Saying that if she is the ONE it will not break
Perhaps you're right. I've never loved anyway, so I can't really say.
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ELUSIVEJIM
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Mar 11 2008, 02:55 PM
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- stradlin23,Mar 11 2008
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I definitely don’t wish we never met
I’m still a long way from getting back to normality but the more you try and get on with things the easier it becomes
No doubt I’ve got some interesting months ahead! I don’t give a damn what people might say behind my back either, if they can’t say it too my face then I’m not bothered, are they that scared of me?
I’ve managed to occupy myself pretty well over the last few weeks
And I’ll be needing my battle armour on very soon
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AndyW76
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Mar 11 2008, 03:15 PM
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- stradlin23,Mar 11 2008
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I definitely don’t wish we never met
I’m still a long way from getting back to normality but the more you try and get on with things the easier it becomes
No doubt I’ve got some interesting months ahead! I don’t give a damn what people might say behind my back either, if they can’t say it too my face then I’m not bothered, are they that scared of me?
I’ve managed to occupy myself pretty well over the last few weeks
And I’ll be needing my battle armour on very soon
A good solicitor definitely take away much of the pain of sorting things out.
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AndyW76
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Mar 11 2008, 03:19 PM
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- stradlin23,Mar 11 2008
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I definitely don’t wish we never met
I’m still a long way from getting back to normality but the more you try and get on with things the easier it becomes
No doubt I’ve got some interesting months ahead! I don’t give a damn what people might say behind my back either, if they can’t say it too my face then I’m not bothered, are they that scared of me?
I’ve managed to occupy myself pretty well over the last few weeks
And I’ll be needing my battle armour on very soon
It's always a pain when you both still have friends in common. For some reason, she has chosen to hang on to my mates despite never seeing them while we were still together (they were friends with her first but not that close).
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ELUSIVEJIM
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Mar 11 2008, 03:22 PM
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- AndyW76,Mar 11 2008
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- stradlin23,Mar 11 2008
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I definitely don’t wish we never met
I’m still a long way from getting back to normality but the more you try and get on with things the easier it becomes
No doubt I’ve got some interesting months ahead! I don’t give a damn what people might say behind my back either, if they can’t say it too my face then I’m not bothered, are they that scared of me?
I’ve managed to occupy myself pretty well over the last few weeks
And I’ll be needing my battle armour on very soon
A good solicitor definitely take away much of the pain of sorting things out.
Yer
As Matt and i know its harder when there are children involved.
Sometimes even when you really do not want to you have to bite your tongue as its the only way to get things moving forward.
Children are the most important part and you have to stay in contact whatever happens as this is your child and both parties want the best for him/her.
Just about did ite my tongue off sometimes tho
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ELUSIVEJIM
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Mar 11 2008, 03:24 PM
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- AndyW76,Mar 11 2008
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- stradlin23,Mar 11 2008
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I definitely don’t wish we never met
I’m still a long way from getting back to normality but the more you try and get on with things the easier it becomes
No doubt I’ve got some interesting months ahead! I don’t give a damn what people might say behind my back either, if they can’t say it too my face then I’m not bothered, are they that scared of me?
I’ve managed to occupy myself pretty well over the last few weeks
And I’ll be needing my battle armour on very soon
It's always a pain when you both still have friends in common. For some reason, she has chosen to hang on to my mates despite never seeing them while we were still together (they were friends with her first but not that close).
Tell me about it
Nothing better than a mate telling you JUST when your getting there that she has met someone else
Then they are engaged
And then getting married soon
Just waiting for the kid to arrive
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AndyW76
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Mar 11 2008, 04:37 PM
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- ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 11 2008
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- AndyW76,Mar 11 2008
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- stradlin23,Mar 11 2008
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I definitely don’t wish we never met
I’m still a long way from getting back to normality but the more you try and get on with things the easier it becomes
No doubt I’ve got some interesting months ahead! I don’t give a damn what people might say behind my back either, if they can’t say it too my face then I’m not bothered, are they that scared of me?
I’ve managed to occupy myself pretty well over the last few weeks
And I’ll be needing my battle armour on very soon
It's always a pain when you both still have friends in common. For some reason, she has chosen to hang on to my mates despite never seeing them while we were still together (they were friends with her first but not that close).
Tell me about it Nothing better than a mate telling you JUST when your getting there that she has met someone else Then they are engaged And then getting married soon Just waiting for the kid to arrive
Well, it certainly wasn't nice finding out that she'd dumped me for someone else. Then again, now I laugh because that poor bastard has to deal with all of her daft issues now. She had a habit of believing that everyone was against her and, what ever people did, it was personal. Also, she was insanely jealous of my brother and his wife, despite there being no reason for her to be.
Thank god I'm rid of that.
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ELUSIVEJIM
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Mar 11 2008, 04:41 PM
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- AndyW76,Mar 11 2008
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- ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 11 2008
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- AndyW76,Mar 11 2008
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- stradlin23,Mar 11 2008
- 02:40 PM
I definitely don’t wish we never met
I’m still a long way from getting back to normality but the more you try and get on with things the easier it becomes
No doubt I’ve got some interesting months ahead! I don’t give a damn what people might say behind my back either, if they can’t say it too my face then I’m not bothered, are they that scared of me?
I’ve managed to occupy myself pretty well over the last few weeks
And I’ll be needing my battle armour on very soon
It's always a pain when you both still have friends in common. For some reason, she has chosen to hang on to my mates despite never seeing them while we were still together (they were friends with her first but not that close).
Tell me about it Nothing better than a mate telling you JUST when your getting there that she has met someone else Then they are engaged And then getting married soon Just waiting for the kid to arrive
Well, it certainly wasn't nice finding out that she'd dumped me for someone else. Then again, now I laugh because that poor bastard has to deal with all of her daft issues now. She had a habit of believing that everyone was against her and, what ever people did, it was personal. Also, she was insanely jealous of my brother and his wife, despite there being no reason for her to be. Thank god I'm rid of that.
Its amazing when you look back and see how wrong it really was.
I just wish you could relise it as soon as they leave.
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AndyW76
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Mar 11 2008, 04:54 PM
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- ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 11 2008
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- AndyW76,Mar 11 2008
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- ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 11 2008
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- AndyW76,Mar 11 2008
- 03:19 PM
- stradlin23,Mar 11 2008
- 02:40 PM
I definitely don’t wish we never met
I’m still a long way from getting back to normality but the more you try and get on with things the easier it becomes
No doubt I’ve got some interesting months ahead! I don’t give a damn what people might say behind my back either, if they can’t say it too my face then I’m not bothered, are they that scared of me?
I’ve managed to occupy myself pretty well over the last few weeks
And I’ll be needing my battle armour on very soon
It's always a pain when you both still have friends in common. For some reason, she has chosen to hang on to my mates despite never seeing them while we were still together (they were friends with her first but not that close).
Tell me about it Nothing better than a mate telling you JUST when your getting there that she has met someone else Then they are engaged And then getting married soon Just waiting for the kid to arrive
Well, it certainly wasn't nice finding out that she'd dumped me for someone else. Then again, now I laugh because that poor bastard has to deal with all of her daft issues now. She had a habit of believing that everyone was against her and, what ever people did, it was personal. Also, she was insanely jealous of my brother and his wife, despite there being no reason for her to be. Thank god I'm rid of that.
Its amazing when you look back and see how wrong it really was. I just wish you could relise it as soon as they leave.
That's half the problem, you remember them as the person you originally fell for and not the person they've become. I hardly recognise anything about the personality of my ex now. She changed from a nice gentle person into a cynical and selfish money grabbing bitch.
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Norbert
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Mar 11 2008, 04:58 PM
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Dear Jim,
according to our account manager at Dell, Windows XP is end of life as at 30th June this year. Vista is possibly going to be a huge pain in the arse to integrate with an office of XP machines, but then possibly not. Before some smart-arse mentions Linux this is a non-starter in terms of compatibility with anything we run.
Should I go and bulk buy a ton of XP Pro licences or just downgrade each Vista one I come across for ever more?
Norbert (worried)
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Norbert
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Mar 11 2008, 04:59 PM
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- AndyW76,Mar 11 2008
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She changed from a nice gentle person into a cynical and selfish money grabbing bitch.
You mean she changed from a girl into a woman.....
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AndyW76
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Mar 11 2008, 05:01 PM
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- Norbert,Mar 11 2008
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She changed from a nice gentle person into a cynical and selfish money grabbing bitch.
You mean she changed from a girl into a woman.....
May be. What I do know is that I'm better of without her. On only 1 wage, I now have more money that I ever have. On 2 wages, her daft spending meant that we always had f'all money.
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