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ELUSIVE JIM'S PROBLEM PAGE; Got a problem? - Let Jim Fix It
Topic Started: Jan 21 2008, 12:16 PM (14,668 Views)
stradlin24
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AndyW76,Mar 5 2008
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stradlin23,Mar 5 2008
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ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 5 2008
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ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 5 2008
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stradlin23,Mar 5 2008
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Jim




what's the best way to beat unwanted vermin?

Depends the size of the vermin???

Mice or a Rhino???

A mouse trap will not fix the latter <wtf>

it's human size

and it wants my money

The TAX MAN after you too <tank>

oh no

something much worse

Yep, the ex can really be a leach. My ex is still after more cash from me, despite me putting forward a more than generous offer. She turned it down because she "wants more than the house is worth". And we didn't even have kids. Thats the last time I ever jointly buy a property. Now she's stopped instructing her solicitor in the hope that house prices will rise. <grrr>

It would be cheaper to kill the bitch.

<think>

Its fun isn’t it

Eventually you learn not to give a f***. The problem is that she was the one in the wrong and hurt me really badly and she thinks that she deserves a decent settlement. She found out that I'd considered suicide (Obviously I didn't and I'm ashamed that I even entertained the thought. She found out when my brother blurted it out in front of her mum) and she said "I don't want your death on my concience". I mean, what a selfish bitch. Now I just laugh because her and the waste of space boyfriend really struggle and I don't have to put up with her stupid "issues".

I have to be careful what I say because she could read this because she knows I’ll be here

we are still married at the moment and we have a young child

It’s well f**ked up


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stradlin23,Mar 5 2008
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AndyW76,Mar 5 2008
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stradlin23,Mar 5 2008
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stradlin23,Mar 5 2008
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stradlin23,Mar 5 2008
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Jim




what's the best way to beat unwanted vermin?

Depends the size of the vermin???

Mice or a Rhino???

A mouse trap will not fix the latter <wtf>

it's human size

and it wants my money

The TAX MAN after you too <tank>

oh no

something much worse

Yep, the ex can really be a leach. My ex is still after more cash from me, despite me putting forward a more than generous offer. She turned it down because she "wants more than the house is worth". And we didn't even have kids. Thats the last time I ever jointly buy a property. Now she's stopped instructing her solicitor in the hope that house prices will rise. <grrr>

It would be cheaper to kill the bitch.

<think>

Its fun isn’t it

Eventually you learn not to give a f***. The problem is that she was the one in the wrong and hurt me really badly and she thinks that she deserves a decent settlement. She found out that I'd considered suicide (Obviously I didn't and I'm ashamed that I even entertained the thought. She found out when my brother blurted it out in front of her mum) and she said "I don't want your death on my concience". I mean, what a selfish bitch. Now I just laugh because her and the waste of space boyfriend really struggle and I don't have to put up with her stupid "issues".

I have to be careful what I say because she could read this because she knows I’ll be here

we are still married at the moment and we have a young child

It’s well f**ked up

Not to sound cliched but it will get better. The best thing is to go see a divorce solicitor and stick to your guns. Ok solicitors are pricey but there is nothing better than the protection of the law. Until I got a solicitor (I rather daftly, I thought she could be amicable and reach a settlement with out trying to srew me over), I was really nervous about our finances. Now, I'm not too woriried.
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Jeez Matt... our trivial differences aside I am sorry to hear this and I hope it works out for you soon.

John
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ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 6 2008
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GREAT TO SEE EVERYONE IS PROBLEM FREE

I MUST REALLY MAKE A DIFFERENCE TO THE WORLD  <roflmao>  <roflmao>  <dunce>

I need help deciding what to wear to coffee and fords wedding.
I want something that doesn't clash with my hair and skin tones, and doesn't make me look too fat on the webcam.
What can you suggest (apart from a paper bag over all the other guests heads)

Now Now i am sure you will look great and could make a black bag look stunning.

Sorry if anyone is eating <roflmao> <sick>

Something plain but with striking accessories can make it look classy.

You can tell i have a Sis <roflmao>

<think> So you'd recommend a black bag, fairly plain, with a striking accessory.

Do you think a wooden club would do for the accessory? Or am I better to go for something metallic like a sabre or foil?
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stradlin23,Mar 6 2008
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we are still married at the moment and we have a young child

It’s well f**ked up

<hug> It's additionally hard when kids are involved. Hope you guys get it all sorted
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John,Mar 5 2008
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Jeez Matt... our trivial differences aside I am sorry to hear this and I hope it works out for you soon.

John

thanks man

i guess some things just aren't meant to be

:(
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John,Mar 5 2008
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Jeez Matt... our trivial differences aside I am sorry to hear this and I hope it works out for you soon.

John

thanks man

i guess some things just aren't meant to be

:(

That's the best way to look at it. If you try to figure out what went wrong, all you do is drive yourself mad. At least, that is how it affected me. In fact, don't even ask her "why" because you'll never get an honest answer. Best thing is to get out and see your mates and you'll start feeling better.
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I've had more than a few relationship break ups in my life and I can honestly say it's not pleasant.

But the one thing I can say is that one day you will wake up and realise that you are not hurting any more. It's a weird thing but it does happen - eventually.

To all of you who are having relationship problems, hang on in there and talk to your friends, but don't over burden them with your troubles. They may well have troubles of their own.

Don't be afraid to ask for professional assistance - some lawyers will do an initial 1/2 hour interview for free and that may be all you need to sort things out.
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Mrs Shrek,Mar 5 2008
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ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 6 2008
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ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 5 2008
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GREAT TO SEE EVERYONE IS PROBLEM FREE

I MUST REALLY MAKE A DIFFERENCE TO THE WORLD  <roflmao>  <roflmao>  <dunce>

I need help deciding what to wear to coffee and fords wedding.
I want something that doesn't clash with my hair and skin tones, and doesn't make me look too fat on the webcam.
What can you suggest (apart from a paper bag over all the other guests heads)

Now Now i am sure you will look great and could make a black bag look stunning.

Sorry if anyone is eating <roflmao> <sick>

Something plain but with striking accessories can make it look classy.

You can tell i have a Sis <roflmao>

<think> So you'd recommend a black bag, fairly plain, with a striking accessory.

Do you think a wooden club would do for the accessory? Or am I better to go for something metallic like a sabre or foil?

<yikes>

I would go for a plain dress with a great hat. <think>

Saying that being male it should show lots of clevage and be short <doh>
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wickedwitch,Mar 6 2008
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I've had more than a few relationship break ups in my life and I can honestly say it's not pleasant.

But the one thing I can say is that one day you will wake up and realise that you are not hurting any more. It's a weird thing but it does happen - eventually.

To all of you who are having relationship problems, hang on in there and talk to your friends, but don't over burden them with your troubles. They may well have troubles of their own.

Don't be afraid to ask for professional assistance - some lawyers will do an initial 1/2 hour interview for free and that may be all you need to sort things out.

<thumbsup>


Mmm am i being out done <yikes>

<roflmao> <roflmao>
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ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 7 2008
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wickedwitch,Mar 6 2008
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I've had more than a few relationship break ups in my life and I can honestly say it's not pleasant.

But the one thing I can say is that one day you will wake up and realise that you are not hurting any more.  It's a weird thing but it does happen - eventually.

To all of you who are having relationship problems, hang on in there and talk to your friends, but don't over burden them with your troubles.  They may well have troubles of their own.

Don't be afraid to ask for professional assistance - some lawyers will do an initial 1/2 hour interview for free and that may be all you need to sort things out.

<thumbsup>


Mmm am i being out done <yikes>

<roflmao> <roflmao>

Bugger! Missed a bit off the end there!

I should have added

"Alternatively ask JIM - totally free and unbiased and shared across the internet with all who are nosey enough to read about it!" <roflmao>
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Mrs Shrek,Mar 5 2008
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ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 6 2008
12:26 AM
Mrs Shrek,Mar 5 2008
10:51 AM
ELUSIVEJIM,Mar 5 2008
10:43 PM
GREAT TO SEE EVERYONE IS PROBLEM FREE

I MUST REALLY MAKE A DIFFERENCE TO THE WORLD  <roflmao>  <roflmao>  <dunce>

I need help deciding what to wear to coffee and fords wedding.
I want something that doesn't clash with my hair and skin tones, and doesn't make me look too fat on the webcam.
What can you suggest (apart from a paper bag over all the other guests heads)

Now Now i am sure you will look great and could make a black bag look stunning.

Sorry if anyone is eating <roflmao> <sick>

Something plain but with striking accessories can make it look classy.

You can tell i have a Sis <roflmao>

<think> So you'd recommend a black bag, fairly plain, with a striking accessory.

Do you think a wooden club would do for the accessory? Or am I better to go for something metallic like a sabre or foil?

<yikes>

I would go for a plain dress with a great hat. <think>

Saying that being male it should show lots of clevage and be short <doh>

a short hat showing lots of cleavage?

<think>

Perhaps 2 hats?

<flirt>
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Dear Jim,
I hope you can help me with this, it's a rather large, rather serious problem. This girl and I were engaged not so long ago, and she has broken up with me. I was told she still loves me and cares for me, but I was also told that she doesn't know whether she wants me alive or dead. Also I was suicidal one night, and said how I felt and I have recently found out that she actually wanted me to kill myself, contradictory to what I was told that night. I Love this girl very dearly and I have trouble going a day without her in my life, but I am in so much pain over it. Is there any way you can help as I feel like I'm going down every day. I get more and more depressed and my thoughts are starting to become suicidal.
Please Help.
Many thanks.
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Shit Stu-E, I'm sorry to hear you are feeling so bad <awww>
But however bad it feels right now, it will get better, I promise.
Please find some one to talk to - a friend (or their parent), teacher, pastor, doctor, even a councillor if it's easier to talk to a stranger.
I imagine you are feeling pretty mixed up and hurt, and I know your ex is also dealing with some issues, but please, please, please, whatever you do, don't take your own life. It leaves behind more hurt and pain than that which you are trying to escape. <no>
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Shadow Stu-E,Mar 10 2008
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Dear Jim,
I hope you can help me with this, it's a rather large, rather serious problem. This girl and I were engaged not so long ago, and she has broken up with me. I was told she still loves me and cares for me, but I was also told that she doesn't know whether she wants me alive or dead. Also I was suicidal one night, and said how I felt and I have recently found out that she actually wanted me to kill myself, contradictory to what I was told that night. I Love this girl very dearly and I have trouble going a day without her in my life, but I am in so much pain over it. Is there any way you can help as I feel like I'm going down every day. I get more and more depressed and my thoughts are starting to become suicidal.
Please Help.
Many thanks.
Stu-E

You’ve got to keep your chin up mate

I’ve had to do the same, I’ve prepared myself for what is to come and are focusing on the positive things I have

If you dwell on the negatives you’ll just send yourself round the bend

Keeping myself busy has helped keep my mind off things and of course having some good friends has helped, although, ultimately the only person that can help you the most is yourself

I’ve been shit on by the person I loved the most but is it worth ruining your life because of it? No
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