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| GV Legend | Aug 15 2007, 12:23 PM Post #31 |
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Pah the best drink ever is a ferrari jack, although they way i make it it should probably be called a ferrari jim! |
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| Startline Ed | Aug 15 2007, 12:26 PM Post #32 |
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Perhaps there should be a particular forum for this kind of thing and all other problems? The Paddock Bar maybe? <thumbsup>? <thumbsdown>? ?
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| Flatdog | Aug 15 2007, 12:28 PM Post #33 |
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point..... i would put it OUZO & coke, JACK & coke and then RUM & coke but they all good... still the 17th glass tho'...
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| Flatdog | Aug 15 2007, 12:31 PM Post #34 |
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maybe a "dear deidre" style help column.... call it the "Dear Aunty Bernie Room"?
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| Shadow Stu-E | Sep 23 2007, 06:51 AM Post #35 |
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Just to update my situation, we are broken up again, i was told she doesnt love me anymore and im alright now, im still depressed and i feel numb but i know i have to move on. any advice on meeting people? it happened friday night. |
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| Steelstallions | Sep 23 2007, 08:34 AM Post #36 |
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Call her bluff and arrange your life so you are in a position to be available to find somebody else to share your time with. Actively make steps to form another relationship. OR put bluntly go on the pull, and don't bore the ar$e off your new date talking about the old one. Be entertaining and you will both enjoy yourself even if the dates fizzle out after a few weeks. She obviously likes keeping you on hold just to boost her ego when she feels like telling you its back on again. Nobody should be at the beck and call of selfish people. MOVE ON MATE, you cannot spend your life being treated like a doormat and if she really wants you back and you have met someone else then that’s a lesson for her to learn, though selfish needy people just find a new victim to torture usually in later life that will be their poor children. Thats were my advice ends, because 1 Its your choice what you want to do and it doesnt effect me which choice you make though i hope you have a succesfull conclusion 2 You might start giving me examples of why she is not like i have said, but if you are on this forum talking about it, do you really know her? 3 You might enjoy being portrayed as the victim when it might be your own fault and you should change the way you treat her. Apologies for the last comment, but we are only hearing one side of the story. |
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| Shadow Stu-E | Sep 23 2007, 10:46 AM Post #37 |
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Thank you for the advice. i will not say i like being the victim, i just thought i would let people know the news my thinking right now is.. i still love her to bits, even though she is a bit controlling, but there is nothing i can do to get her back so im moving on. we are still friends and i still like to know she is ok and her life is alright (she was a major junkie when i met her. the only drug i think she WASNT taking was Heroin) and she has manic depression and is suicidal. she did tell me that she had been falling out of love with me for a while on friday night and that she only went this far because she didnt want to hurt me. i dont know how much of that is true but im going to think back to the happy times we had in our 13 months together. she is still a nice person. i changed her for the good ( i got her off drugs, binge drinking and suicide -btw she is 16) and i hope she stays that way because then i have made a difference in her life. she did break up with me suddenly and i reacted pretty badly (went for an all night walk with a friend 1am to 7am and that includes a walk through into the mcdonalds drive through at 3am and playing with their touch screens )on the point of who she is. i know everything about her. i spent weeks with her spending every second with her. i will admit now that im not with her anymore that she did take advantage of me and i was treated fairly badly but i still loved her then and i still love her now. what im going to do now is completely change my life. im being offered a 38 hour p/w contract at work, which i will take. im going to start going to gym 5 times a week to tone up. im saving up for a guitar pack, a car, driving lessons and new clothes and things like that. im going to start going out now (she always got jealous if i went out) to meet new people, i shunned some of my old friends for my gf for which i now feel very guilty and am in the process of apologising, taking blame for my own actions and hopefully making up with them and im going to start living life to the full. im only 18 and im in the top 10% of smartest people in my state. i know i can go places. im no longer tied down by a depressed girl whom i spent 900 dollars of talking on the mobile per week to her. im sorry for my rant everyone. i just thought my friends here would like to know how my life is going ![]() cheers to anyone who read this whole thing
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| Mrs Shrek | Sep 23 2007, 05:16 PM Post #38 |
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Sorry to hear your news Stu-E, but you seem to be going the right way about getting on with your life, rather than hanging around on the hope that she might change her mind. Sounds like you have helped her thru a pretty rough patch in her life, and hopefully that makes the last 13 months worth while for you, even if this is the end of the road for your relationship
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| f1chick | Sep 24 2007, 09:01 AM Post #39 |
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oh my god sorry to hear u broke up hun know u were really happy
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| stradlin24 | Sep 24 2007, 09:03 AM Post #40 |
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I thought someone had died when I read the title of the thead |
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| Norbert | Sep 24 2007, 09:08 AM Post #41 |
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No, it's just a couple of emotional kiddies.... Wait until the "I want but can't have" changes from the blonde across the street to the house and mortgage that are now no longer an option for young/youngish couples. I'm 28, she-who-must-be-obeyed is 20, both earning reasonable money. Yet the difference between the the cost of a modest flat, let alone house, and what we could get as a mortgage is about £20-40K! |
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| stradlin24 | Sep 24 2007, 09:23 AM Post #42 |
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I find that inheriting property from relatives is the way to go To get on the property ladder now for young couples is virtually impossible |
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| Norbert | Sep 24 2007, 09:55 AM Post #43 |
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Let's think. The flat I rent in Bournemouth costs £600 a month. It's got a medium sized kitchen, small hallway, small bathroom, reasonable living room, a small bedroom and a larger bedroom. The decor is servicable, although the sash windows are suffering from a previous person al but painting them shut. The non-sash windows have terrible secondary glazing that's a pain in the arse and the opening windows they supplement are rubbish in the extreme. Overall, spend say £5K and you'd have a lovely flat for a couple with tons of junk, or a couple of students/friends who want to share the rent. We saw a flat in the same building in the window of an estate agent on the street we live in. Same spec. £143500. Let's say we inherit/save/relative lends £15K for a deposit. A 25 year mortgage for £130K is around £950 a month. Conventional mortgage calculation of 3x salary for the pair of us would leave us £30K short, although we'd just about make the repayments if the interest rates don't do up too much. Oh, and then the market would crash, and we'd be stuck in negative equity. Great. |
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| stradlin24 | Sep 24 2007, 10:23 AM Post #44 |
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yep, it sucks and it's only getting worse |
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i was talking about RUM AND COKE, best drink ever!



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my thinking right now is.. i still love her to bits, even though she is a bit controlling, but there is nothing i can do to get her back so im moving on. we are still friends and i still like to know she is ok and her life is alright (she was a major junkie when i met her. the only drug i think she WASNT taking was Heroin) and she has manic depression and is suicidal. she did tell me that she had been falling out of love with me for a while on friday night and that she only went this far because she didnt want to hurt me. i dont know how much of that is true but im going to think back to the happy times we had in our 13 months together. she is still a nice person. i changed her for the good ( i got her off drugs, binge drinking and suicide -btw she is 16) and i hope she stays that way because then i have made a difference in her life. she did break up with me suddenly and i reacted pretty badly (went for an all night walk with a friend 1am to 7am and that includes a walk through into the mcdonalds drive through at 3am and playing with their touch screens
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