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| Woman denied Communion because she's a lesbian | |
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| George K | Mar 19 2012, 02:45 PM Post #226 |
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Finally
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My question has nothing to do with sexual orientation. Rather it has to do with someone introducing themselves as a (presumed) adulterer. |
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| Luke's Dad | Mar 19 2012, 02:53 PM Post #227 |
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At our church, it's kind of left up to the individual to decide if everything is right with them and Christ. So this young lady would have been allowed to accept it if she wanted to. Of course, it never would have reached that point, as she would have been stoned before entering the building. |
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| somebody else's sock | Mar 19 2012, 03:02 PM Post #228 |
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Middle Aged Carp
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The short answer (without getting into how the priest approaches the situation) is that the couple is not eligible to receive communion in a Catholic church. If your scenario is modified slightly, and the couple is married but one is divorced, then answer is the same. No communion in a Catholic church. If I understand Dewey's posts correctly, it seems that in a Presbyterian church they would not be refused in either case. |
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| John D'Oh | Mar 19 2012, 03:13 PM Post #229 |
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MAMIL
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I get stoned before going to church, too. I'm pretty sure Jesus understands. |
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| ivorythumper | Mar 19 2012, 03:28 PM Post #230 |
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I am so adjective that I verb nouns!
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Actually, the individuals are under a personal obligation to not receive the sacrament without reconciliation and a willingness to order their lives to Christ. The Church understands that this does not necessarily happen all at once, and people often have to grow into better relationship, so the Church does not ever ask that people be perfect or sinless but rather that they desire the graces of the sacraments to help them grow into lives of virtue and charity. (this is called "gradualism"). The various sacraments are intended to help us achieve such integrity in our lives-- reconciliation is integrally connected to the sacrament of Holy Communion since Communion leads to Reconciliation and Reconciliation leads to Communion. A Christian is called to be in a constant state of personal renewal in Christ, which is the reason Christ gave us the Sacraments. The standard for when a priest is obligated to not administer Communion is actually pretty high -- I'm not sure the scenario George posed would meet that, though it would still be incumbent on the individuals to not present themselves for Communion without reconciliation. |
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| Renauda | Mar 19 2012, 03:35 PM Post #231 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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Well if Jesus doesn't, the Rev. Pat Robertson does. Don't bogart that joint my friend. |
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| kenny | Mar 19 2012, 04:30 PM Post #232 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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Funny, I feel like I've been stoned BY the church. I'm pretty sure Jesus understands. |
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| Renauda | Mar 19 2012, 05:03 PM Post #233 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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Bob Dylan ~ Rainy Day Women #12 & 35 |
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| John D'Oh | Mar 19 2012, 05:51 PM Post #234 |
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MAMIL
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And some more stoning |
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| Renauda | Mar 19 2012, 06:02 PM Post #235 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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Stoned woman ~ Ten Years After |
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| Dewey | Mar 19 2012, 07:40 PM Post #236 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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IT, I'm not rushing to anything. I'm reading the priest's own words regarding the incident, and responding accordingly.
Yes, if you've taken it as your task to convince me that closed-table theology is correct, your task is indeed insurmountable. I'm not going to play silly semantic games over the definition of "worthy." One is welcome to the Table and to participate in the sacrament, or they are not. You can use whatever terminology you want, but the outcome is what matters, and what actually defines the situation. I do not believe that the church - any church - has the responsibility or the authority to act as arbiter, guard, or protector of the sacrament by deciding which baptized believers are allowed to participate in the sacrament. The sacrament is the Lord's, not the church's. Only the Lord may determine who may or may not participate, and has been pointed out earlier, as he himself even offered the sacrament to Judas Iscariot, I'd say his standard of who is allowed to participate is quite low.
You're confusing the concepts of not understanding Catholic doctrine regarding this issue with simply thinking it's bullsh!t. I understand the doctrine perfectly well, and no amount or re-reading it is going to suddenly open my eyes to accept the bullsh!t as anything but the bullsh!t that it is. There is no reading comprehension problem here, there is just a profound theological difference. I understand that you think my tradition's theology is similarly bullsh!t, but I'm not telling you that you *obviously* haven't read our position; otherwise you'd see the error of your ways and admit that I'm right. I recognize that you see things differently. I'm not trying to tell you that you need to change your beliefs; I'm simply saying that I don't share them - and that isn't a result of not having read the doctrine.
We've covered this ground already. Because I do not believe that the church has the authority or responsibility to disallow any baptized believer who presents himself or herself to participate, your question is meaningless to me. There is nothing that a baptized believer can do that should enable *me* to disallow them from participating in the sacrament. Not forever. Not even temporarily. Not if I don't like him. Not if I hate him. Not if he is an adulter. Not if he is single and not celibate. Not if he is gay and not celibate. Not if he is a criminal. Not if he is a murderer. Not if he is Hitler. I would not do it, Auntie Mabel; I do not like a closed Lord's Table. And I wouldn't do it specifically because of what we both believe is transpiring within the sacrament. Beyond the question of the nature of Christ's presence, we both believe that God's grace is being bestowed in a special way, and God is spiritually nourishing us, strengthening us, enabling us to become more sanctified, better followers of him. It therefore makes absolutely no sense to disallow any baptized believer from the sacrament - particularly those who are the most in need of such grace. If a believer has confessed and professed repentance of their sins - even if they have a different understanding of what is and isn't sin in their life than I would have - and they believe in their own heart and conscience that they should come to the Table, then they deserve to participate. Period.
That isn't just bullsh!t, it's pure, strained, refined, concentrated bullsh!t. Your church would not allow me to participate in the sacrament. Do you honestly believe that I am not "looking to grow in Christ" ?
Reference my earlier comments. I understand their position; I just think it's nonsense.
Apparently, the church hierarchy disagrees with you. And I certainly disagree with you. I do, in fact, know the role of a pastor, and this priest botched it. Further, the scandal of refusing the sacrament to the woman is not the fault of the priest; the scandal, in my opinion, is that the church teaches and upholds such a terrible doctrine at all.
Based on countless previous discussions, you know perfectly well that I do not ignore Matthew 18 at all; I simply interpret it differently than you do. I believe the chapter to actually be quite important in validating my church's beliefs, not yours. In any case, your accusing me of "ignoring" this text is apparently just an attempt at a personal insult, or to goad me into returning with similar personal insult. No thank you; I'm sticking to discussing my thoughts on the priest's version of what happened, and the church doctrine related to it. And since we're not really saying anything that I haven't already said earlier in this thread, I'll be done with it after this post. I only responded again because Aqua said he would be interested in hearing my comments. I've commented; that's enough. |
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| bachophile | Mar 19 2012, 09:22 PM Post #237 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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everbody must get stoned |
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| ivorythumper | Mar 19 2012, 09:24 PM Post #238 |
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I am so adjective that I verb nouns!
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I have no desire, and have never had any desire, to inflame you to more uncharitable behavior. God bless you. |
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| AndyD | Mar 20 2012, 05:46 AM Post #239 |
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Senior Carp
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I haven't read much of this thread. Church theology sucks (how I hate that Americanism), to the point where it mostly seems designed to: firstly abstract, obfuscate, avoid, and generally get around what Jesus actually taught, and secondly concentrate power and wealth in the church bureaucracy. This from someone who witnesses to the next life and believes in God. May our Father and His servants bless us all with patience, tolerance and peace. |
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| Mikhailoh | Mar 20 2012, 05:47 AM Post #240 |
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If you want trouble, find yourself a redhead
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It has been SOOO long since I heard that. That Lee boy had fast little fingers. |
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Once in his life, every man is entitled to fall madly in love with a gorgeous redhead - Lucille Ball | |
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| Larry | Mar 20 2012, 01:34 PM Post #241 |
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Mmmmmmm, pie!
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I don't think Jesus Christ would walk through the doors of most churches, particularly the Roman Catholic Church, with all its pagan rituals. That said, it's not the church's job to decide if I am worthy of taking communion. That's between me and God. It's the church's job to offer communion. Actually, I don't recall Jesus saying "Do this in remembrance of me, but only if you've been a good little boy or girl". That's the problem with the Catholic church - it has set itself up to be between people and God, which is not what the church was ever intended to be. The church, nor a priest, have the right to pass judgment on someone's worthiness. |
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Of the Pokatwat Tribe | |
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| John D'Oh | Mar 20 2012, 02:47 PM Post #242 |
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MAMIL
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He was a single man who lived with his mother and hung around with sailors. You might be right. |
| What do you mean "we", have you got a mouse in your pocket? | |
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| Renauda | Mar 20 2012, 03:17 PM Post #243 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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So I guess pancake breakfast down at St. Alfonzo's church basement is out of the question for next Sunday. |
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| Aqua Letifer | Mar 20 2012, 03:23 PM Post #244 |
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ZOOOOOM!
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![]() Also any and all winter ho-downs. Pagan rituals: not always what they're cracked up to be. |
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| Renauda | Mar 20 2012, 03:28 PM Post #245 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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A fella has to watch out for that "host on toast" they serve. |
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| Larry | Mar 20 2012, 03:30 PM Post #246 |
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Mmmmmmm, pie!
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Where do the ho's go during the summer?? |
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Of the Pokatwat Tribe | |
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| Renauda | Mar 20 2012, 03:32 PM Post #247 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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To a more accomodating pancake breakfast a little further down the road. |
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| Aqua Letifer | Mar 20 2012, 03:38 PM Post #248 |
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ZOOOOOM!
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Read: the VFW. |
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| Mikhailoh | Mar 20 2012, 03:38 PM Post #249 |
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If you want trouble, find yourself a redhead
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Alberta. Those roughnecks got mad cheese. |
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Once in his life, every man is entitled to fall madly in love with a gorgeous redhead - Lucille Ball | |
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| Renauda | Mar 20 2012, 03:41 PM Post #250 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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The local Legion? |
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