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| Australians hate the phrase "passed away."; And I don't get it. | |
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| Tweet Topic Started: Apr 6 2011, 06:40 PM (1,580 Views) | |
| apple | Apr 7 2011, 02:53 AM Post #26 |
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one of the angels
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too close to the funniest ever. |
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| JBryan | Apr 7 2011, 03:09 AM Post #27 |
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I am the grey one
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Crossed the end zone. Hit the checkout counter. |
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"Any man who would make an X rated movie should be forced to take his daughter to see it". - John Wayne There is a line we cross when we go from "I will believe it when I see it" to "I will see it when I believe it". Henry II: I marvel at you after all these years. Still like a democratic drawbridge: going down for everybody. Eleanor: At my age there's not much traffic anymore. From The Lion in Winter. | |
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| John D'Oh | Apr 7 2011, 03:10 AM Post #28 |
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MAMIL
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That's terrible. You'll certainly never catch me doing that. |
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| John D'Oh | Apr 7 2011, 03:54 AM Post #29 |
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MAMIL
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I think it's a great tribute to all of our self-control that we're two pages in, and nobody has posted a clip featuring a Norwegian Blue. |
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| Frank_W | Apr 7 2011, 04:57 AM Post #30 |
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Resident Misanthrope
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Pushin' daisies, taking a dirt nap, and my personal favorite: Croaked. ![]() That said, death is something that happens to the physical organism; NOT to the person themselves. |
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Anatomy Prof: "The human body has about 20 sq. meters of skin." Me: "Man, that's a lot of lampshades!" | |
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| Copper | Apr 7 2011, 05:22 AM Post #31 |
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Shortstop
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Yes. Especially the "especially if it seems you are protecting" part. |
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The Confederate soldier was peculiar in that he was ever ready to fight, but never ready to submit to the routine duty and discipline of the camp or the march. The soldiers were determined to be soldiers after their own notions, and do their duty, for the love of it, as they thought best. Carlton McCarthy | |
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| Woodrow | Apr 7 2011, 05:34 AM Post #32 |
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Junior Carp
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It was only recently I learned that the expression "gave up the ghost" was biblically based. That's a pretty cool one! |
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| Renauda | Apr 7 2011, 05:35 AM Post #33 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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Now that's funny and all the more reason for me to use it. |
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| AndyD | Apr 7 2011, 05:40 AM Post #34 |
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Senior Carp
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Doesn't our use of 'passed' in this way come from the Gospel of John, in Chapters 1 & 5? I use 'pass on', or when in a slightly lighter mood, 'fall off the twig' |
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Every morning the soul is once again as good as new, and again one offers it to one's brothers & sisters in life. | |
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| Frank_W | Apr 7 2011, 05:49 AM Post #35 |
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Aqua, your professor sounds like a real dick. |
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Anatomy Prof: "The human body has about 20 sq. meters of skin." Me: "Man, that's a lot of lampshades!" | |
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| JBryan | Apr 7 2011, 06:02 AM Post #36 |
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I am the grey one
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I am sure he would appreciate being told just like that, too.
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"Any man who would make an X rated movie should be forced to take his daughter to see it". - John Wayne There is a line we cross when we go from "I will believe it when I see it" to "I will see it when I believe it". Henry II: I marvel at you after all these years. Still like a democratic drawbridge: going down for everybody. Eleanor: At my age there's not much traffic anymore. From The Lion in Winter. | |
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| Frank_W | Apr 7 2011, 06:10 AM Post #37 |
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Resident Misanthrope
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Yes. Absolutely. And after you tell him that, Aqua, you should waterboard him in the toilet. |
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Anatomy Prof: "The human body has about 20 sq. meters of skin." Me: "Man, that's a lot of lampshades!" | |
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| John D'Oh | Apr 7 2011, 07:19 AM Post #38 |
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MAMIL
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As opposed to the more theologically sound 'burning in eternal hellfire', which is a bit of a no-no at the old wake. |
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| Renauda | Apr 7 2011, 07:23 AM Post #39 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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You forgot the part about weeping and gnashing of teeth. |
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| Chris Aher | Apr 7 2011, 07:43 AM Post #40 |
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Middle Aged Carp
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I'm not fond of the phrase "passed away" either but I find myself using it sometimes. When my son died, I found that it was uncomfortable or even hurtful to many people for me to use the term "died" bluntly. The euphemism was not comforting to either my wife or to me, though. |
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Regards, Chris | |
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| Frank_W | Apr 7 2011, 07:53 AM Post #41 |
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I'm still so sorry, Chris. I remember when it happened... I hope the healing process has been kind to you and your wife. ((HUG)) to you both. |
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Anatomy Prof: "The human body has about 20 sq. meters of skin." Me: "Man, that's a lot of lampshades!" | |
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| Aqua Letifer | Apr 7 2011, 05:25 PM Post #42 |
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ZOOOOOM!
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Dewey, (sorry it takes me so long to get back to your posts, 14-hour time difference and all)
If I agreed with you on this then I wouldn't really have any argument. But the spiritual elements of the word "death" are auxiliary, not implicit. The primary definition is something along the lines of (depending on which dictionary you use) "the total and permanent cessation of all vital functions of an organism." It's only when you get down to the least common definitions do you see mention of anything spiritual. In terms of usage, it has more in common with "extinction" than "passing." |
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| Copper | Apr 7 2011, 05:50 PM Post #43 |
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Shortstop
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Yes, of course waterboard him, just be careful not to pass him away. |
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The Confederate soldier was peculiar in that he was ever ready to fight, but never ready to submit to the routine duty and discipline of the camp or the march. The soldiers were determined to be soldiers after their own notions, and do their duty, for the love of it, as they thought best. Carlton McCarthy | |
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| Aqua Letifer | Apr 7 2011, 05:53 PM Post #44 |
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ZOOOOOM!
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You appear to have killed the correct usage of the term in your example. You don't "pass somebody away." |
| I cite irreconcilable differences. | |
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| Aqua Letifer | Apr 7 2011, 05:59 PM Post #45 |
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ZOOOOOM!
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I'm gonna wait until my term is over first. But the day I turn in my final assignment is going to be Candid Opinion Day. |
| I cite irreconcilable differences. | |
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| Aqua Letifer | Apr 7 2011, 06:04 PM Post #46 |
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ZOOOOOM!
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See, that's what I figured. And I think all this business about "passing away," and the general vibe I'm getting from that one professor and a good chunk of my classmates has everything to do with the kind of people who take writing classes, and nothing at all to do with their being Australian. |
| I cite irreconcilable differences. | |
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| RosemaryTwo | Apr 7 2011, 06:52 PM Post #47 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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Wise you are, mysterious Aqua Man. Learning you are. |
| "Perhaps the thing to do is just to let stupid run its course." Aqua | |
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| Jolly | Apr 7 2011, 07:25 PM Post #48 |
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Geaux Tigers!
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| The main obstacle to a stable and just world order is the United States.- George Soros | |
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| sue | Apr 7 2011, 08:17 PM Post #49 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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Really? My beef with the expression is nothing to do with writing classes. I remember wanting to scream to the rafters (I didn't of course, because I don't want to make people feel bad) when I heard that, after having people close to me die. It felt like they were trying to make it sound softer, because dealing with the reality of what happened was just too icky. Doesn't work for me. They're dead. Worm food. They will never be with us again. That's a bit more than a 'passing'. Sorry. To each their own; I respect your thoughts on this, Aqua, but I guess it's a pretty personal thing. |
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| Aqua Letifer | Apr 7 2011, 08:57 PM Post #50 |
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ZOOOOOM!
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No, I know where you're coming from sue. My point was that writerly folks tend to fixate more upon words or phrases they don't like. Also, aligning themselves to the more arty crowds, they tend to dog on Ahmurrika more than others, as I know it's not the whole country that thinks like this. I'm talking about a specific type of person here, not the whole country. That's what I meant. And personal preference is totally fine, I'm just against the faculty banning the phrase completely, and I think their line of reasoning for doing so is all kinds of baseless. It's not some crappy phrase America conjured up and I'm not even convinced it's a euphemism. If you are of a religious background (which I know many are not), I think the word's more than appropriate (but still wondering where Dewey's getting his ideas about the word "death" because I could be wrong about that.) |
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