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| Need Ideas for a Modestly Priced Christmas Gift | |
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| Tweet Topic Started: Dec 13 2010, 07:12 PM (159 Views) | |
| PattyP | Dec 13 2010, 07:12 PM Post #1 |
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Senior Carp
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I've met a dear, slightly older couple who live just down the street from me. They are the epitome of southern grace and charm and give of themselves freely. I'm already very fond of them. He has been out of work for 2 years, and she confided that they lost their previous home because of it. I also believe they've had to downsize several times. They both have some serious health problems, but they just keep plugging along. Tonight she gave me a Christmas gift, which was completely unexpected. Even though it was simple, I was very touched at her thoughtfulness especially since they are struggling financially. I have a large, lovely sounding wind chime that they've both admired. I was thinking about getting them a smaller version but now I'm not sure. Even though it's not terribly expensive, I'm concerned that they might feel uncomfortable if it appears I spent too much. I know it's the thought that counts, but I don't want to make a social faux pas. Do you have any suggestions for a modest, but heartfelt gift? Or, should I just give them the wind chime and not be concerned about the cost difference? |
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| dolmansaxlil | Dec 13 2010, 07:14 PM Post #2 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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I would go with the wind chime. Getting them something you know they've admired seems much more heartfelt than some gift just because you feel you have to. I've never been concerned with relative price of gifts. I get what I think people will love. |
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| ivorythumper | Dec 13 2010, 07:41 PM Post #3 |
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I am so adjective that I verb nouns!
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I agree completely. |
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| George K | Dec 13 2010, 07:44 PM Post #4 |
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SRSLY Does it *really* matter if you spend $25 vs $5? Of course not. Get what appeals to you and you think they would like. Something that will allow them to remember you. |
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| Jolly | Dec 13 2010, 09:00 PM Post #5 |
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Geaux Tigers!
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Unless it is truly something outrageous (say, you park a new 747 in front of their home), they will accept the gift in the same spirit as it was given. The price difference means little to nothing. |
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| sue | Dec 13 2010, 09:37 PM Post #6 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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| RosemaryTwo | Dec 14 2010, 04:27 AM Post #7 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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Yes, and write a nice note to let them know how much you care. |
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