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| Tweet Topic Started: Nov 11 2010, 07:26 AM (777 Views) | |
| Klaus | Nov 12 2010, 04:05 AM Post #51 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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This doesn't sound good, Brenda. Sorry to hear this. But I also think that you should do a thorough research of your options. Find out who the top specialists in this area are. Ask more than one specialist. Maybe it isn't as bad as you think. |
| Trifonov Fleisher Klaus Sokolov Zimmerman | |
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| brenda | Nov 12 2010, 06:42 AM Post #52 |
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NAK, thanks for recognizing that I needed to rant. I started this thread the moment I got off the phone with the clinic staff about the x-ray results and the doctor's comments. I was sad, mad, frustrated, you name it. I did not know you have a chronic condition, nor do I know what AS stands for, so send me a PM please. I want to understand what you mean. You're too young for any such stuff, too. My goodness. Big hugs to you, buddy.
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| brenda | Nov 12 2010, 06:48 AM Post #53 |
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Dol, I'm so glad she likes it! I took some liberties with the design and color plan. Who knew a bear could have a plum colored rump, eh? Oh, and purple in the trees? I really loved putting some movement in the sky, too. It needed that. Now your mom's rug is truly unique and hers alone, not just like the others. |
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| brenda | Nov 12 2010, 07:02 AM Post #54 |
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Hey, Klaus, maybe I'll need to see a specialist in Germany? I wish. I told hubby about it last night. This will affect him very much. As noted in a prior post, he's been accustomed to thinking I could do much of the work for our house projects. For years, I was as strong as a man and could do any lifting I needed to do without any hand troubles. I could even lift hubby. (Not that he liked that part. ) That's changed now. We've been married for 25 years, so it will be an adjustment for him. I did some brick removal yesterday for an upcoming project, and I've found now that I cannot even do that kind of thing anymore. Bummer. |
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| apple | Nov 12 2010, 07:56 AM Post #55 |
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tell us about that Hobart |
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| Frank_W | Nov 12 2010, 08:04 AM Post #56 |
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Brenda, I'm sorry for the diagnosis, but it's not the end of the world. Lots of good advice in this thread. Be good to yourself, Dear.
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| brenda | Nov 12 2010, 08:55 AM Post #57 |
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what do you want to know? |
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| MrsKB | Nov 12 2010, 03:45 PM Post #58 |
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Middle Aged Carp
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So sorry, Brenda. My mom has severe arthritis in her hands and has been getting injections for a while. They do seem to help, although pretty painful. Best wishes to you. |
| Winning is a habit. Watch your thoughts, they become your beliefs. Watch your beliefs, they become your words. Watch your words, they become your actions. Watch your actions, they become your habits. Watch your habits, they become your character. ~Vince Lombardi | |
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| MrsKB | Nov 12 2010, 03:52 PM Post #59 |
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Oh--and she (my mom) is not the type of person you tell to stop using her hands--she does projects around the house, has a beautiful garden she maintains, and she crafts and sews--constantly. Much to the chagrin of my dad and us kids. But she insists on continuing these activities because they are a part of her livelihood. And who are we to take that away from her!! I agree that you might want to research all of your options before deciding on one route. Again--best wishes. |
| Winning is a habit. Watch your thoughts, they become your beliefs. Watch your beliefs, they become your words. Watch your words, they become your actions. Watch your actions, they become your habits. Watch your habits, they become your character. ~Vince Lombardi | |
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| brenda | Nov 12 2010, 07:48 PM Post #60 |
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Hey, I've never met your mom, but I like her already!! She's my kind of gal. ![]() Thanks for your kind words. I know I'll have to give up some of my more rigorous hand work, but I want to be like your mom and hang on to as much of my fun as possible. Life is for living, and I'm not done yet.
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| Luke's Dad | Nov 12 2010, 08:34 PM Post #61 |
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While I'm terribly sorry to hear this, don't think for a minute that it gets you out of baking me a batch of cookies when I visit!
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| brenda | Nov 12 2010, 09:02 PM Post #62 |
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Not to worry! The Hobart allows me to bake as much as I like. I am soooooo glad I got the mixer, especially as it gets harder and harder to do things by hand. Daughter and I made a triple batch of chocolate chip cookies to take to a potluck dinner tonight. They turned out wonderful, and with the mixer it was not hard to do. Let me know when you and the family will be here. We'll make cookies, breads, and whatever else you like.
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| RosemaryTwo | Nov 13 2010, 12:40 PM Post #63 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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I like NAK's perspective. I think ailments can teach us something about caring for ourselves. |
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| Jolly | Nov 13 2010, 01:44 PM Post #64 |
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Geaux Tigers!
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Work smarter, not harder. There's a bunch of stuff out there to make your life easier...there are kitchen utensils with bigger, softer grips made specifically for folks with arthritic hands. Why swing a hammer, when Harbor Freight and Amazon refurbed nail guns are cheap as dirt? Why screw things by hand when portable drivers are $60? You can still do almost anything you want to do...you may have to use a different tool, you may have to use a different method, you may have to use a different tactic and you most certainly need to rest when your body tells you to. My wife's hands were so bad at 25, she was scared to carry her second baby, because she had already dropped her once. She turns 50 next month, but she can still do almost anything she wants...if...if she has a little sense about her and understands how to overcome her limitations. If she can, you can. Now, that's not to say God cannot heal your hands. He can. Whether he will or not depends on God. But in the meantime, as the old black folks say, "put some feet on dem prayers"... |
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| LWpianistin | Nov 13 2010, 02:44 PM Post #65 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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| brenda | Nov 13 2010, 04:21 PM Post #66 |
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Already doing those things, Jolly. Been adjusting over the years without really even planning to do it. I'm also good at making lemonade from the lemons life tosses to me. I had hubby out helping me today with the bricks. Daughter helped, too. I just ordered a set of four new veggie peelers as I was thinking about what hurts the most to do in the kitchen. Peeling the veggies has to happen, so I might as well have better tools, as you well noted. Next on the list should be an electric can opener. I've used a hand crank version for years, but it's time to splurge for the electric. ![]() When we build the new kitchen, which is our next project, one of the biggest benefits will be to have the counters at a normal height again. We bought this place from a woman who had the current kitchen designed for her, and she's six feet tall. I'm only 5 foot three inches tall. She had the counters raised by about four inches for her comfort, which is decidedly uncomfortable for me, and has likely made for some of my shoulder issues. Unfortunately,this arthritis thing goes beyond the hands. Jolly, I'd love to meet you and your bride some day.
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I started this thread the moment I got off the phone with the clinic staff about the x-ray results and the doctor's comments. I was sad, mad, frustrated, you name it.




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