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College Dating Sex Questions; Should I post here or at WTF?
Topic Started: Mar 30 2009, 09:32 AM (1,817 Views)
Pianolicious
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ivorythumper
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Luke's Dad
Mar 31 2009, 06:40 AM
If I was single, I think my lower limit would be about 26, but preferably somebody in their early 30's. (That's when a woman begins to come into her own, in terms of beauty, bearing, elegance, and grace).
Half your age plus 7. That's the ideal age of a woman for a man at the beginning of the relationship. :D
The dogma lives loudly within me.
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Pianolicious
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1/3 my age plus 5 doesn't cut it huh?
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Mikhailoh
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If you want trouble, find yourself a redhead
Maybe not for marriage. But I haven't heard you talking matrimony so far, just your entry level fornication. :D
Once in his life, every man is entitled to fall madly in love with a gorgeous redhead - Lucille Ball
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ivorythumper
Mar 31 2009, 09:21 AM
Luke's Dad
Mar 31 2009, 06:40 AM
If I was single, I think my lower limit would be about 26, but preferably somebody in their early 30's. (That's when a woman begins to come into her own, in terms of beauty, bearing, elegance, and grace).
Half your age plus 7. That's the ideal age of a woman for a man at the beginning of the relationship. :D
That ol' saw just keeps changing. That used to be the formula for calculatiing the lowest age you should date, now it's the ideal age? :lol2:
The problem with having an open mind is that people keep trying to put things in it.
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big al
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Mar 31 2009, 07:05 AM
Aim high, my man. Aim high.
Odd. That reminds me of the aphorism that whoever said the way to a man's heart is through his stomach is aiming about six inches too high.

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big al
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ivorythumper
Mar 31 2009, 09:21 AM
Luke's Dad
Mar 31 2009, 06:40 AM
If I was single, I think my lower limit would be about 26, but preferably somebody in their early 30's. (That's when a woman begins to come into her own, in terms of beauty, bearing, elegance, and grace).
Half your age plus 7. That's the ideal age of a woman for a man at the beginning of the relationship. :D
That must be why I found girls my age so hot when I was 14.

Big Al
Location: Western PA

"jesu, der simcha fun der man's farlangen."
-bachophile
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Luke's Dad
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big al
Mar 31 2009, 09:34 AM
ivorythumper
Mar 31 2009, 09:21 AM
Luke's Dad
Mar 31 2009, 06:40 AM
If I was single, I think my lower limit would be about 26, but preferably somebody in their early 30's. (That's when a woman begins to come into her own, in terms of beauty, bearing, elegance, and grace).
Half your age plus 7. That's the ideal age of a woman for a man at the beginning of the relationship. :D
That must be why I found girls my age so hot when I was 14.

Big Al
:lol:
The problem with having an open mind is that people keep trying to put things in it.
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ivorythumper
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big al
Mar 31 2009, 09:34 AM
ivorythumper
Mar 31 2009, 09:21 AM
Luke's Dad
Mar 31 2009, 06:40 AM
If I was single, I think my lower limit would be about 26, but preferably somebody in their early 30's. (That's when a woman begins to come into her own, in terms of beauty, bearing, elegance, and grace).
Half your age plus 7. That's the ideal age of a woman for a man at the beginning of the relationship. :D
That must be why I found girls my age so hot when I was 14.

Big Al
And when you're 94, there will be a hot little 54 year old for you.
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sue
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HOLY CARP!!!
:rolleyes2: Sheesh, you guys all talk like the relationship is all up to the guy. Women are not all mindless fragile little flowers, you know. They can decide for themselves if they want to mess around with an older guy, regardless of age difference. :tongue:
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Mikhailoh
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I agree, Sue. Women want to get laid just as much as men. And can, due to their place in the chase, be quite a bit more straightforward about it.

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ivorythumper
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No, Sue, we all realize that it really is up to the lady. Women are pretty binary -- they either don't know a man exists or they at least entertain the idea of having his children. :sword: :whome:
The dogma lives loudly within me.
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Jolly
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Red Rice
Mar 30 2009, 12:32 PM
Frank_W
Mar 30 2009, 12:23 PM
Either that, or she's having some kind of allergic reaction. :unsure:

Yeah, same difference.
Great.

Now the poor guy doesn't know whether to jump her bones or shove benedryl down her throat....decisions, decisions... ;)
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Pianolicious
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I asked the girl next door (who I consider very pretty and who has met Kenny) if I have **** me eyes. She said "definitely yes." So I guess I just send out a vibe. Who knew?
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sue
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Pianolicious
Mar 31 2009, 06:48 PM
I asked the girl next door (who I consider very pretty and who has met Kenny) if I have **** me eyes. She said "definitely yes." So I guess I just send out a vibe. Who knew?
Uh, me. :hat: Thought I'd mentioned that, earlier. Perhaps I was being too vague and discreet. :tongue:

Men, ya gotta love them. :silly:
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Larry
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Mmmmmmm, pie!
On the "age" thing.....

Age isn't a big thing for me. Maturity and class however, are. I've gone out with women in their 50s who acted like they were 15. I've gone out with 25 year olds who were mature, classy women who looked like women, not little girls. Obviously I can't relate to little girls, but I can relate to a woman who is mentally and emotionally mature. I hope that makes sense. Anyway, the age of the woman isn't important to me. I only care about whether or not we have something in common, and can relate.

To me, the bigger issue here is the switching around. If someone is gay, fine. Date people of the same sex. But don't experiment with other people trying to "find" yourself. Figure out which sex you're attracted to and then stick with that.

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Pianolicious
Mar 30 2009, 09:32 AM
Question 1: What are some ways to tell that women are attracted to you? What are some sure-fire signs they are horny?


My advice? Give her a big wet kiss on the mouth. If she kisses back, she like you. If she calls the police, she doesn't.


In my defense, I was left unsupervised.
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Frank_W
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Jolly
Mar 31 2009, 06:37 PM
Red Rice
Mar 30 2009, 12:32 PM
Frank_W
Mar 30 2009, 12:23 PM
Either that, or she's having some kind of allergic reaction. :unsure:

Yeah, same difference.
Great.

Now the poor guy doesn't know whether to jump her bones or shove benedryl down her throat....decisions, decisions... ;)
Of course, you could just coat Mr. Happy with Benadryl and give it to her as a suppository.... :devilgrin:
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Me: "Man, that's a lot of lampshades!"
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HOLY CARP!!!
sue
Mar 31 2009, 08:26 AM
Pianolicious
Mar 31 2009, 06:32 AM
A more authentic me is emerging and that feels good.

I'm thinking back to myself, early 20's. I was always more attracted to 'older' men, and that's one of the reasons. They tended to be more comfortable with themselves, less prone to putting on the cool guy act, and the having been around a bit more, the life experiences they had to share......all very hot stuff for a young woman.
I'm not surprised at all at the reactions you are getting.
:thumb:

I can't handle guys my age - too party-oriented, and even the nice ones don't know what they want. I'm 23 and know what I want out of life. I'm finding guys in their 30s to be a lot more attractive than 20s - have their own houses, settled...yeah, that's MUCH better than frat houses.
And how are you today?
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Right on! See? Old guys ROCK! :lol2:
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Aqua Letifer
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LWpianistin
Apr 1 2009, 12:09 PM
I'm 23 and know what I want out of life.
And that's not going to change at all I'm sure. ^_^

I'm not dissing your preferences but if you're not into guys in college because they're not settled and have their own houses, well... I think maybe you're aiming a bit high. Pretty natural for kids in school to either party too much or not know what they're about; those things usually work themselves out in their due course. Doesn't mean you have to be attracted to them but I wouldn't discredit them for that, either.
I cite irreconcilable differences.
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ivorythumper
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Psst... Aqua... houses are chick magnets.
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ivorythumper
Apr 1 2009, 12:42 PM
Psst... Aqua... houses are chick magnets.
Says the architect, who I'm sure has no vested interest whatsoever in promoting home ownership. :P
I cite irreconcilable differences.
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kenny
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Pianolicious
Mar 31 2009, 06:48 PM
I asked the girl next door (who I consider very pretty and who has met Kenny) if I have **** me eyes. She said "definitely yes."
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I (once again) am on completely the same page as LW (who by the way, it is lovely to hear from :hug: ).

I've been with Mr. MP for 2 years now and he is 11 years older than me. I always knew i would settle down with an older man because males that are my age don't want what i want. Plus i'm simply not as attracted to them as i am older guys.

There's something VERY sexy about older men... mmmm....

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