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Moderators - please do something about Larry.
Topic Started: Mar 6 2008, 06:50 PM (5,170 Views)
sarah_blueparrot
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Daniel
Mar 7 2008, 06:53 PM
I meant out of line in the sense of telling the administrator what he 'needs to know' when he has already posted about the situation. I wasn't talking about using unacceptable language.  Nice try though.

I think it's important that he knows that Larry isn't the only person calling Crash to task on this. I'd be interested to know how you think I'm out of line. I'm guessing it has more to do with the fact that I said I didn't like you a couple of weeks ago; something which obviously didn't go down well in the world of Daniel.
Death is simply a shedding of the physical body like the butterfly shedding its cocoon. It is a transition to a higher state of consciousness where you continue to perceive, to understand, to laugh, and to be able to grow.

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Aqua Letifer
Mar 7 2008, 09:54 AM
Daniel
Mar 7 2008, 09:53 AM

I meant out of line in the sense of telling the administrator what he "needs to know" when he has already posted about the situation.  Nice try though.

I really don't care what you thought you meant Daniel. :lol:

And that's why Quirt told you that you were acting like a punk yesterday, because you write posts like this one- "I don't really care what you thought you meant Daniel". Well, people with more life experience really have no trouble seeing this behavior for what it is. :lol:
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sarah_blueparrot
Mar 7 2008, 10:01 AM
Daniel
Mar 7 2008, 06:53 PM
I meant out of line in the sense of telling the administrator what he 'needs to know' when he has already posted about the situation. I wasn't talking about using unacceptable language.  Nice try though.

I think it's important that he knows that Larry isn't the only person calling Crash to task on this. I'd be interested to know how you think I'm out of line. I'm guessing it has more to do with the fact that I said I didn't like you a couple of weeks ago; something which obviously didn't go down well in the world of Daniel.

Well, I read a post of yours in this thread that said that Crash's posts have no value (that's none) and that people (meaning everyone) posts in Crash's theads to let him know this. I didn't like it that you seemed to be talking for everyone. Today you are emphasizing that other people feel the same as Larry. That's something different and I've never argued about that.
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Mar 7 2008, 07:08 PM
Well, I read a post of yours in this thread that said that Crash's posts have no value (that's none) and that people (meaning everyone) posts in Crash's theads to let him know this. I didn't like it that you seemed to be talking for everyone. Today you are emphasizing that other people feel the same as Larry. That's something different and I've never argued about that.

I'm not emphasizing that other people feel the same as Larry. I've said outright that I feel the same as Larry. No, you haven't argued about that, but that is what I offered when you questioned my telling jgoo "what he needs to know".

When I said "people" I didn't mean "everyone". I meant that there are people who post in Crash's threads to tell him that they think his endless questions and woman stories are tiresome and boring, thereby elongating the thread, which jgoo evidently took to mean that people see some value in the thread.

I will talk to jgoo when he gets back. I have nothing to justify to you, but I will explain my actions if you don't understand my reasons for doing them.
Death is simply a shedding of the physical body like the butterfly shedding its cocoon. It is a transition to a higher state of consciousness where you continue to perceive, to understand, to laugh, and to be able to grow.

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sarah_blueparrot
Mar 7 2008, 10:15 AM
Daniel
Mar 7 2008, 07:08 PM
Well,  I read a post of yours in this thread that said that Crash's posts have no value (that's none) and that people (meaning everyone) posts in Crash's theads to let him know this.  I didn't like it that you seemed to be talking for everyone.  Today you are emphasizing that other people feel the same as Larry.  That's something different and I've never argued about that.

I'm not emphasizing that other people feel the same as Larry. I've said outright that I feel the same as Larry. No, you haven't argued about that, but that is what I offered when you questioned my telling jgoo "what he needs to know".

When I said "people" I didn't mean "everyone". I meant that there are people who post in Crash's threads to tell him that they think his endless questions and woman stories are tiresome and boring, thereby elongating the thread, which jgoo evidently took to mean that people see some value in the thread.

I will talk to jgoo when he gets back. I have nothing to justify to you, but I will explain my actions if you don't understand my reasons for doing them.

Ok, Sarah. Thanks.
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kenny
Mar 7 2008, 11:56 AM
Be loyal to good values, behavior and morality, not to people.

No thank you. (Insert smiley...on my blackberry and don't know how to do it) My choice to be loyal to friends, family and partner includes my desire for the best for those individuals, regardless of their behavior. Sometimes that means I am glad when someone is corrected. Sometimes it means I correct them. There is nothing disloyal about that. To thine own self be true is pretty insular and assumes a little too much about the consistency of my own virtue...you may be that consistent, but I am not. I expect people to make mistakes.

Loyalty and sycophancy are different things entirely.
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kenny
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"My own virtue?" Huh?
I said nothing about loyalty to ME.
I'm loyal to good values.

After my father raped my sister should I remain loyal to him?

I think the marriage vow "for better or for worse" is dumb.

If Jose turns into a piece of crap I'm gonna dump him.
I suggest you do the same with your husband.
I trust you picked a good one and this never happens.

But, loyalty to people blinds.
Be loyal to good values.
My 2 cents.
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kenny
Mar 7 2008, 12:38 PM
"My own virtue?" Huh?
I said nothing about loyalty to ME.
I'm loyal to good values.

After my father raped my sister should I remain loyal to him?

I think the marriage vow "for better or for worse" is dumb.

If Jose turns into a piece of crap I'm gonna dump him.
I suggest you do the same with your husband.
I trust you picked a good one and this never happens.

But, loyalty to people blinds.
Be loyal to good values.
My 2 cents.

For better or worse means what it says, kenny.

There are times you just have to soldier on...
The main obstacle to a stable and just world order is the United States.- George Soros
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DivaDeb
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kenny
Mar 7 2008, 01:38 PM
"My own virtue?" Huh?
I said nothing about loyalty to ME.
I'm loyal to good values.

After my father raped my sister should I remain loyal to him?

I think the marriage vow "for better or for worse" is dumb.

If Jose turns into a piece of crap I'm gonna dump him.
I suggest you do the same with your husband.
I trust you picked a good one and this never happens.

But, loyalty blinds.

That is an absolute statement with which I absolutely disagree. Obviously we have a disagreement about the definition of loyalty. You're entitled to yours, but I'm keeping mine. Do read what I said about loyalty, if you want to understand my meaning. I said I think that loyalty includes wanting what is best for a person. "What is best" is not always what is nicest or most pleasant.
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kenny
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Jolly
Mar 7 2008, 10:45 AM
kenny
Mar 7 2008, 12:38 PM
"My own virtue?" Huh?
I said nothing about loyalty to ME.
I'm loyal to good values.

After my father raped my sister should I remain loyal to him?

I think the marriage vow "for better or for worse" is dumb.

If Jose turns into a piece of crap I'm gonna dump him.
I suggest you do the same with your husband.
I trust you picked a good one and this never happens.

But, loyalty to people blinds.
Be loyal to good values.
My 2 cents.

For better or worse means what it says, kenny.

There are times you just have to soldier on...

no matter what?

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DivaDeb
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I'm not sure how we went from your assessments of people's loyalty to other forumites to wedding vows? I think there are reasons people should dissolve a marriage but for me, they're extremely limited. Let's talk children instead. I plan to remain loyal to mine, even if one does something horrendous and lands in jail. My loyalty at that point will definitely include the desire that they bear their punishment and undersrtand that they earned it. Nothing disloyal or unloving about that. But yes, I would definitely stick around to support their reformation
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Larry
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Nah, you were telling Peggy, "If you don't stand up for me I won't stand up for you."


That wasn't what I said - or meant - at all, and I'm highly offended at the accusation.

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Frank_W
Mar 7 2008, 10:09 AM
Hey, Crash... How about if you just quit acting like a dick, all the time?

I learned that "Dear Jerk" letters don't get optimal results.
The dogma lives loudly within me.
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Larry, you will probably say that I'm just another person that doesn't like you. It is true that I don't like you, but I try to be fair nonetheless in my judgments and you are wrong, wrong, wrong in what you are doing here.


Well tell me this, Al - is the issue of Crash's posting on the front burner now, or is it not?

I know you don't like me, Al. And yes, you're just like the rest of the little "hate Larry" clique - every opportunity to pile on is taken. In all fairness to Quirt, he's the only one in your group capable of even trying to be fair and think for himself - bad as I hate to admit it.
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ivorythumper
Mar 7 2008, 01:17 PM
Frank_W
Mar 7 2008, 10:09 AM
Hey, Crash... How about if you just quit acting like a dick, all the time?

I learned that "Dear Jerk" letters don't get optimal results.

Like anything else has, IT? People offering sincere advice, over and over, people telling Crash that his stuff isn't funny, people openly expressing suspicion that he's just toying with us... Has any of that made a difference? If it has, please point it out. You can't, because none of it has made one bit of difference. :shrug:
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Mar 7 2008, 11:52 AM
Until recently I confess to have egged Crash on by providing him with deliberately bad advice about his foilbles and amourous misadventures. I recall one instance in September that my bad advice drove a few people apoplectic. Whatever. I don't care. The point is Crash wanted attention and I obliged him.

However 10 days ago I received a PM from him. Believing that he genuinely wanted to engage my thoughts on his behavior patterns in this forum I answered sincerely. I naively thought he was reaching out. After a couple of PM's it became apparent he had no intention of reaching out but rather was intent on making a mockery of the message was sincerely trying to convey.

Crash has now joined another person for whom have no respect on my blocked list. Both are habitual attention getters and manipulators.

He did the same thing to me.

Some of you won't pull your heads out of your asses and take a look around to save you.

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QUOTE (Frank_W @ Mar 7 2008, 10:09 AM)
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Hey, Crash... How about if you just quit acting like a dick, all the time?


No, Frank. Larry's the d!ck, Crash is the a$$hole. Of course, in this situation, when the d!ck tried to f the a$$hole, he came out smelling pretty sh!tty, IMO.
The problem with having an open mind is that people keep trying to put things in it.
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Mar 7 2008, 08:25 PM
No, Frank. Larry's the d!ck, Crash is the a$$hole. Of course, in this situation, when the d!ck tried to f the a$$hole, he came out smelling pretty sh!tty, IMO.

But Larry posts a variety of interesting and useful comments along with his insults. I feel like I know Larry, whereas I don't know Crash at all. I find that strange after so many years of co-habiting ( :darthno: ) in the same forum.
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Frank_W
Mar 7 2008, 12:23 PM
ivorythumper
Mar 7 2008, 01:17 PM
Frank_W
Mar 7 2008, 10:09 AM
Hey, Crash... How about if you just quit acting like a dick, all the time?

I learned that "Dear Jerk" letters don't get optimal results.

Like anything else has, IT? People offering sincere advice, over and over, people telling Crash that his stuff isn't funny, people openly expressing suspicion that he's just toying with us... Has any of that made a difference? If it has, please point it out. You can't, because none of it has made one bit of difference. :shrug:

I don't see any reason to be inflammatory, Frank.

I also haven't seen anything Crash wrote that was so different from what you've occasionally written about your own "ipsism" (to use Klaus's delicate phrase), or Ax's sexual deviancy poll, or Larry's vulgarities.

It's really difficult for me to get all worked up about any of this. People are who they are and they will act as they want. Our only choice is whether we are going to let it affect us.
The dogma lives loudly within me.
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There are aspects of Larry I admire and respect, there are other aspects of Larry...well, let's just say not so much. There are aspects of Crash that I admire and respect. Unfortunately, we haven't seen any of these in over two years. I've had it with Crash, and wish Larry the best in bashing him. Frankly, I didn't have much of an issue with Larry creating a sock to mimic Crash. But to accuse Crash of creating the sock crossed a line, IMO.
The problem with having an open mind is that people keep trying to put things in it.
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ivorythumper
Mar 7 2008, 11:31 AM

It's really difficult for me to get all worked up about any of this. People are who they are and they will act as they want. Our only choice is whether we are going to let it affect us.

I've said it before but ah what the heck, I can't help it.

"There is only one thing to consider in a confrontation and that is, what is your reaction to it?" - Bruce
I cite irreconcilable differences.
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IT, it's not affecting me, really. I honestly couldn't care less. The individuals of this forum that I enjoy interacting with, know how to get ahold of me, if they choose. It wouldn't bother me one bit then, to walk out on this forum, delete the bookmark, and drop off the radar all together. :shrug:

But by all means, if it makes you feel good about yourself to pompously wave your finger in my face, do continue. :shrug:
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But to accuse Crash of creating the sock crossed a line, IMO.


It was a taunt thrown at him at what I knew would be the beginning of a long discussion. The story didn't end there, the decision of why I said it shouldn't end there either.

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LadyElton
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Mar 7 2008, 02:25 PM
QUOTE (Frank_W @ Mar 7 2008, 10:09 AM)
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Hey, Crash... How about if you just quit acting like a dick, all the time?


No, Frank. Larry's the d!ck, Crash is the a$$hole. Of course, in this situation, when the d!ck tried to f the a$$hole, he came out smelling pretty sh!tty, IMO.

That is teh ghey. :leaving:
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