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| Aqua Letifer | Jan 4 2008, 10:54 AM Post #76 |
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ZOOOOOM!
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GMAFB? |
| I cite irreconcilable differences. | |
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| John D'Oh | Jan 4 2008, 10:56 AM Post #77 |
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An inability to laugh at oneself is in my opinion another clear indication of impairment. |
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| ivorythumper | Jan 4 2008, 10:59 AM Post #78 |
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I am so adjective that I verb nouns!
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what drives someone to tell jokes at the expense of other people? what do you think relationships with others are about? dominance? ego gratification? love? service? acceptance? what do you think are indicators of an emotionally and relationally healthy person? what do you think are indicators of an emotionally and relationally unhealthy person? |
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| ivorythumper | Jan 4 2008, 11:01 AM Post #79 |
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I am so adjective that I verb nouns!
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Indeed. How does that map on to mocking others and things others hold as value? Does being able to laugh at oneself give carte blanche to deride other people? |
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| Aqua Letifer | Jan 4 2008, 11:01 AM Post #80 |
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It may, but I generally don't like these kinds of maxims. They sound good and appear to be intelligent but they certainly don't always hold true. For example, the person who makes jokes at the expense of others. Sure, sometimes that means this person has their own issues and takes it out on others as a way to feel better about them. But sometimes they're just fine with the way they are; he or she is just a jackass. |
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| John D'Oh | Jan 4 2008, 11:04 AM Post #81 |
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In my case, yes. Not in your case. Please don't laugh at me anymore, it's not funny. |
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| John D'Oh | Jan 4 2008, 11:07 AM Post #82 |
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What do you mean 'APPEAR' intelligent? Are you trying to say I'm a bit of a thickie? You are emotionally crippled and probably stunted in other ways which I'm too polite to mention. |
| What do you mean "we", have you got a mouse in your pocket? | |
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| Frank_W | Jan 4 2008, 11:09 AM Post #83 |
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Anatomy Prof: "The human body has about 20 sq. meters of skin." Me: "Man, that's a lot of lampshades!" | |
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| Aqua Letifer | Jan 4 2008, 11:10 AM Post #84 |
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ZOOOOOM!
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Well like I said, sometimes it makes the person feel better about his or herself, to put down others. A lot of inner struggle might be the motivation driving their actions. But I think just as often, a person will see nothing wrong with what he or she is doing, and he or she is simply insensitive to the feelings of others. It may not go any deeper than that. Those come from different psychological conditions.
Mostly getting something out of one another. As a species humanity groups together because the individual benefits of being in a group are larger than the benefits of living independently. |
| I cite irreconcilable differences. | |
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| Aqua Letifer | Jan 4 2008, 11:11 AM Post #85 |
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:lol: I didn't notice it sounded that way until just now. |
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| John D'Oh | Jan 4 2008, 11:12 AM Post #86 |
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Anybody who doesn't find my jokes hysterically funny is by definition emotionally crippled. Quite often, that's pretty much everyone other than me, but hey, we can't all be perfect, can we? I ALWAYS laugh at my own jokes, in order to ensure that everyone realises how funny they are. |
| What do you mean "we", have you got a mouse in your pocket? | |
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| Frank_W | Jan 4 2008, 11:12 AM Post #87 |
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I generally laugh at everyone, including myself. Humans are funny animals. Life itself is pretty funny. None of us are getting out of this alive. Might as well laugh and piss in Death's eye while doing it.
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| QuirtEvans | Jan 4 2008, 11:14 AM Post #88 |
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Speak for yourself. Even now, my assistant, Igor, is preparing the ... volunteer ... recipient into which my magnificent brain will be transplanted. BWAHAHAHAHAHAHA! |
| It would be unwise to underestimate what large groups of ill-informed people acting together can achieve. -- John D'Oh, January 14, 2010. | |
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| ivorythumper | Jan 4 2008, 11:15 AM Post #89 |
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You are basically describing someone who is emotionally truncated and/or relationally impaired. |
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| ivorythumper | Jan 4 2008, 11:17 AM Post #90 |
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I am so adjective that I verb nouns!
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Target rich environment.... But lucky for you I just staked out all this moral high ground. :lol: |
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| kathyk | Jan 4 2008, 11:17 AM Post #91 |
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If one is really honest with oneself, it becomes readily apparent that nearly all humor is at the expenses of someone else. The only humor that is really benign is self-depracating humor. All you have to do is listen to any contemporary comedian, and the things that make people roar the most with laughter are the ones that make humor out of some ethnic, religious, political, you-name-it group. It's certainly natural to not laugh at humor poked at your own group. When it's a group I identify with (e.g. Democrats or Lutherans) I often can laugh, but if not, I can usually slough it off. If the humor is poked at me individually, it depends on whether the person is doing it antagonistically or in spirit of fun (laughing with me, not at me). If it's the former, well, I chalk that up to mean-spiritedness. I'm pretty much game for anything else. But, let's face it. Humor is almost always at the expense of someone else. |
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| Aqua Letifer | Jan 4 2008, 11:23 AM Post #92 |
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ZOOOOOM!
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Well I think we agree on the possible causes for that kind of behavior, I just don't know if I agree with your vocabulary. Relationally impaired.... okay, I'll leave that one. But "emotionally truncated" to me doesn't sound right. I don't think these people are necessarily short on emotions, they sound more like they're "emotionally mismatched"; they don't feel the same way about the above situations as a healthier individual would. |
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| Frank_W | Jan 4 2008, 11:28 AM Post #93 |
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I plan on living forever. So far, so good...
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| Axtremus | Jan 4 2008, 11:29 AM Post #94 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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"emotionally truncated" -- what does that mean, is there a reference for it in the DSM? "relationally impaired" -- what does that mean, is there a reference for it in the DSM? Or did you just make them up?
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| Frank_W | Jan 4 2008, 11:32 AM Post #95 |
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Elephantly truncated.... Throw peanuts! Relationally impaired... There are lots of people with family trees that don't fork, down here...
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Anatomy Prof: "The human body has about 20 sq. meters of skin." Me: "Man, that's a lot of lampshades!" | |
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| ivorythumper | Jan 4 2008, 11:35 AM Post #96 |
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Words, Ax, they are words. Is the meaning that opaque? |
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| John D'Oh | Jan 4 2008, 11:38 AM Post #97 |
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Let's face it, the only reason for not making a joke at someone else's expense once in a while is an inability to do so. Never mind emotional truncation or relational impairment, if you don't do jokes it's because you're not bloody funny. |
| What do you mean "we", have you got a mouse in your pocket? | |
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| TomK | Jan 4 2008, 11:39 AM Post #98 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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That was the unfunniest thing you ever said, John. But it's definitely true. :lol: |
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| ivorythumper | Jan 4 2008, 11:43 AM Post #99 |
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I am so adjective that I verb nouns!
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Reminds me of the last scene in "Ridicule" when the two expat Frenchmen are trying to understand what this British "humour" is compared to wittiness. :lol: |
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| Frank_W | Jan 4 2008, 11:45 AM Post #100 |
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Given the usual condition of British weather and British cuisine, if they didn't have a sharp sense of humour, they'd be even madder than they already are! |
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