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| The woman situation..should I help? | |
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| Tweet Topic Started: Dec 3 2007, 08:56 PM (643 Views) | |
| CrashTest | Dec 3 2007, 08:56 PM Post #1 |
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Pisa-Carp
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Ok, right now as you all know we are separated. I do not think I will go back, so here is my question. I sincerely do like her - and I worry about her and her kid. Even if I have nothing anymore romantically to do with her, can I still help her out? Even if she doesn't even have to see me or talk to me, can I still pay her phone bill, or perhaps send her some money when she needs it every once in a while? This would be just to help her - I'd want nothing back, not even talk or see her if she doesn't want to. Her life is much harder than mine, and even if she does not like me, I do not want to see her suffer. |
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| kenny | Dec 3 2007, 09:01 PM Post #2 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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| CrashTest | Dec 3 2007, 09:05 PM Post #3 |
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Pisa-Carp
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Why? I'd feel bad - she doesn't even ever have to talk with me, she can find someone else, I'll find someone else - but I just don't want to see the world step on her due to lack of resources. Mostly because of her kid..he's innocent in this world, no reason that he has to suffer because his mother doesn't have her head on straight. |
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| kenny | Dec 3 2007, 09:08 PM Post #4 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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| Rainman | Dec 3 2007, 09:08 PM Post #5 |
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Fulla-Carp
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paging apple. . . paging apple. . . |
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| Daniel | Dec 3 2007, 09:09 PM Post #6 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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| CrashTest | Dec 3 2007, 09:10 PM Post #7 |
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Pisa-Carp
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Wait, what's wrong with me helping her like this? I'm not seeing it. |
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| kenny | Dec 3 2007, 09:17 PM Post #8 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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| CrashTest | Dec 3 2007, 09:45 PM Post #9 |
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Pisa-Carp
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What? I don't get it. |
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| George K | Dec 4 2007, 04:21 AM Post #10 |
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Finally
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A guide to GKSR: Click "Now look here, you Baltic gas passer... " - Mik, 6/14/08 Nothing is as effective as homeopathy. I'd rather listen to an hour of Abba than an hour of The Beatles. - Klaus, 4/29/18 | |
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| apple | Dec 4 2007, 04:45 AM Post #11 |
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she'll find someone else i'm sure. her needs are far beyond that of a normal struggling mother in my opinion. at this moment in time when you are vulnerable, (missing her) it would be best for you if you maintained your distance. perhaps in the future. |
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| QuirtEvans | Dec 4 2007, 05:47 AM Post #12 |
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I Owe It All To John D'Oh
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Wasn't this post supposed to be in a joke thread somewhere? |
| It would be unwise to underestimate what large groups of ill-informed people acting together can achieve. -- John D'Oh, January 14, 2010. | |
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| Phlebas | Dec 4 2007, 06:44 AM Post #13 |
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Bull-Carp
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Random FML: Today, I was fired by my boss in front of my coworkers. It would have been nice if I could have left the building before they started celebrating. FML The founding of the bulk of the world's nation states post 1914 is based on self-defined nationalisms. The bulk of those national movements involve territory that was ethnically mixed. The foundation of many of those nation states involved population movements in the aftermath. When the only one that is repeatedly held up as unjust and unjustifiable is the Zionist project, the term anti-semitism may very well be appropriate. - P*D | |
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| Frank_W | Dec 4 2007, 06:46 AM Post #14 |
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Resident Misanthrope
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Anatomy Prof: "The human body has about 20 sq. meters of skin." Me: "Man, that's a lot of lampshades!" | |
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| ivorythumper | Dec 4 2007, 08:41 AM Post #15 |
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I am so adjective that I verb nouns!
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Crash -- should I PM you my address for the bottle of Scotch? |
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| CrashTest | Dec 4 2007, 09:18 AM Post #16 |
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Pisa-Carp
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| kenny | Dec 4 2007, 09:27 AM Post #17 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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-%& |
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| sarah_blueparrot | Dec 4 2007, 09:46 AM Post #18 |
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Fulla-Carp
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If I were your next girlfriend, I would resent the fact that you were supporting another woman. Even if you were to say it doesn't mean anything, I would not feel happy with it in the slightest. Probably I would have these worries with good cause, because at the end of the day, it really could and would mean something. |
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Death is simply a shedding of the physical body like the butterfly shedding its cocoon. It is a transition to a higher state of consciousness where you continue to perceive, to understand, to laugh, and to be able to grow. - Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross | |
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| Frank_W | Dec 4 2007, 09:49 AM Post #19 |
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Resident Misanthrope
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Sarah, you're wasting your time. Crash solicits advice, but hasn't the least intention of taking it. Ever.
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Anatomy Prof: "The human body has about 20 sq. meters of skin." Me: "Man, that's a lot of lampshades!" | |
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| sarah_blueparrot | Dec 4 2007, 09:51 AM Post #20 |
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Yeah, I'm slowly beginning to realise this... Oh well. Nice to be helpful. Maybe I should have left it at 'If I were your next girlfriend...' |
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Death is simply a shedding of the physical body like the butterfly shedding its cocoon. It is a transition to a higher state of consciousness where you continue to perceive, to understand, to laugh, and to be able to grow. - Dr. Elizabeth Kubler-Ross | |
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| kluurs | Dec 4 2007, 10:24 AM Post #21 |
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Fulla-Carp
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So, you would be thinking all these charitable thoughts if this woman were 300 lbs, had a skin condition and smelled badly? Or...is it because she's hot and you still want her - even if you don't have sex with her - you want to feel that you've got something with this woman? Either way, until you leave emotionally...you're not available for someone else. |
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| QuirtEvans | Dec 4 2007, 10:54 AM Post #22 |
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I Owe It All To John D'Oh
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There are lots of single women with children out there. None of those kids have done anything wrong to deserve their lot in life. Crash should give money to all of them. |
| It would be unwise to underestimate what large groups of ill-informed people acting together can achieve. -- John D'Oh, January 14, 2010. | |
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| John D'Oh | Dec 4 2007, 11:12 AM Post #23 |
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MAMIL
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Failing that, send the money to me. I could make a beautiful mother of two children pretty happy with it, and then she'd make me happy (knudge, knudge say no more, say no more), so you'd get double the benefit, and you'd never even have to leave your room and miss any of those HD sports programs you Americans love so much. |
| What do you mean "we", have you got a mouse in your pocket? | |
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| kenny | Dec 4 2007, 11:22 AM Post #24 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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John what if your wife finds out?
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| Jack Frost | Dec 4 2007, 11:31 AM Post #25 |
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Bull-Carp
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Yes, that is nice. Send her lots of money. I am sure she will appreciate it. jf |
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