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| Do you consider yourself a good "lover" | |
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| Tweet Topic Started: May 11 2007, 09:22 AM (342 Views) | |
| CrashTest | May 11 2007, 09:22 AM Post #1 |
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Pisa-Carp
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Just curious as to how people perceive themselves! And I'd like some discussion if those perceptions are often accurate - I know people tend to either overvalue or underplay their abilities - but I wonder if maybe sometimes it's accurate and not biased. |
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| LadyElton | May 11 2007, 09:26 AM Post #2 |
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Fulla-Carp
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Depends on if I use fresh batteries or not.
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| kenny | May 11 2007, 09:28 AM Post #3 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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I believe the government should fund a research project to establish measurement standards. I can't wait till the dems take over.
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| Frank_W | May 11 2007, 09:30 AM Post #4 |
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Resident Misanthrope
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The real question is whether my partner feels I am a good lover or not.
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Anatomy Prof: "The human body has about 20 sq. meters of skin." Me: "Man, that's a lot of lampshades!" | |
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| CrashTest | May 11 2007, 09:34 AM Post #5 |
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Pisa-Carp
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I think that's the way you tell really - how the other person feels about it, and then you get a general sense of things. Body language is powerful, you can tell when it's working if you read carefully. |
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| TomK | May 11 2007, 09:34 AM Post #6 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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Romance: The wife and I have brunch/lunch a couple times a week--drive to St.Pete's beach, or the Ocean or whatever. We have drinks and dinner together (maybe dancing)--like a religion on Friday night. Sex: The wife's happy--we try to do it every day, (something we decided at the beginning of our marriage) but end up with about 5 times a week (life is a bothersome affair!) I just love my wife. |
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| kenny | May 11 2007, 09:36 AM Post #7 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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We all do. |
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| Frank_W | May 11 2007, 09:36 AM Post #8 |
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Resident Misanthrope
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Right on. Part of being a good lover is being perceptive, reading body language and cues, and putting your partner's pleasure before your own. (The reciprocation, trust me, is sooo worth it!)
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Anatomy Prof: "The human body has about 20 sq. meters of skin." Me: "Man, that's a lot of lampshades!" | |
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| CrashTest | May 11 2007, 09:36 AM Post #9 |
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Pisa-Carp
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Tom, life can get in the way of course. But when you are young and have a new woman, plus some free time - 2-5 times a day instead of a week! ![]() Frank, that's right - for me, it's not good unless the woman also gets every bit of the enjoyment out of it. That's when it is great - both need to be at the same level. Heck, since women are more sensitive emotionally and physically, you need to give them even more, that way it balances out. |
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| TomK | May 11 2007, 09:38 AM Post #10 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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It also works when you are older and are either a Mormon or a Moslem. :lol: |
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| Nobody's Sock | May 11 2007, 09:52 AM Post #11 |
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I believe you'll get answers in line with the other question: Are you an above average driver?
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| TomK | May 11 2007, 10:30 AM Post #12 |
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HOLY CARP!!!
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Or civil unionite. Or roommate. As the case may be.
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| The 89th Key | May 11 2007, 10:37 AM Post #13 |
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I've never had a complaint. ![]() ...or a compliment.
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| Mikhailoh | May 11 2007, 12:52 PM Post #14 |
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If you want trouble, find yourself a redhead
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No, he meant YOUR wife. In particular. We only talk to you to get pics and info of her. |
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Once in his life, every man is entitled to fall madly in love with a gorgeous redhead - Lucille Ball | |
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| ny1911 | May 11 2007, 09:56 PM Post #15 |
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I've heard the words "So that's what it feels like". I don't know if that makes me good or bad. I felt good at the time. |
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So live your life and live it well. There's not much left of me to tell. I just got back up each time I fell. | |
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| Larry | May 11 2007, 10:20 PM Post #16 |
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Mmmmmmm, pie!
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I have heard the word "Nghacklmnpgmmmaaarrrrkrkkkk!"... but I couldn't find out what it meant because shortly after she said it she passed out..... ![]() (it's a JOKE, Jack.....) |
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| katie | May 11 2007, 11:28 PM Post #17 |
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Fulla-Carp
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good response 89th
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Part of being a good lover is being perceptive, reading body language and cues, and putting your partner's pleasure before your own. (The reciprocation, trust me, is sooo worth it!)




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