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Topic Started: Sep 9 2006, 11:41 AM (196 Views)
CrashTest
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I apologize if I have been a little bit enigmatic about my date, but perhaps it is a little complicated.

It was a double date with a friend and his girlfriend, and he is very experienced. According to him and even the girl I went on the date, I did everything perfectly. People here seem to think I don't know how to talk to girls due to my questions, but the opposite is true - I can handle myself very well. (And this is not only my opinion - the girl I went on the date with even commented on how funny and amiable I was!)


I will reveal exactly what happened in time, as there is a fairly peculiar twist that is working itself out at the moment, and I want to know the outcome before I tell the story. It's a good one, and I have learned a great deal more about women, even if the process my have had some unfortunate (or ultimately fortunate) occurrences.
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Dewey
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Just for the record, do you have, like, a third arm growing out of your forehead or anything?
"By nature, i prefer brevity." - John Calvin, Institutes of the Christian Religion, p. 685.

"Never waste your time trying to explain yourself to people who are committed to misunderstanding you." - Anonymous

"Oh sure, every once in a while a turd floated by, but other than that it was just fine." - Joe A., 2011

I'll answer your other comments later, but my primary priority for the rest of the evening is to get drunk." - Klaus, 12/31/14
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CrashTest
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No, nothing like that. The girl in question is going through some things, which have to be resolved first - it is a bit complicated.
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Dewey
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OK, thanks, I was just checking.
"By nature, i prefer brevity." - John Calvin, Institutes of the Christian Religion, p. 685.

"Never waste your time trying to explain yourself to people who are committed to misunderstanding you." - Anonymous

"Oh sure, every once in a while a turd floated by, but other than that it was just fine." - Joe A., 2011

I'll answer your other comments later, but my primary priority for the rest of the evening is to get drunk." - Klaus, 12/31/14
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CrashTest
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The biggest issue is that her parents just divorced. She's a bit messed up at the moment, and insecure. She needs some time.
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Dewey
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Have you ever noted a pattern of becoming interested in females that for one or another reason, are unable to enter into a romantic commitment with you; what that might signify; and how the pattern might be modified? I ask from the standpoint of having noted the same pattern in my own life a long, long time ago.
"By nature, i prefer brevity." - John Calvin, Institutes of the Christian Religion, p. 685.

"Never waste your time trying to explain yourself to people who are committed to misunderstanding you." - Anonymous

"Oh sure, every once in a while a turd floated by, but other than that it was just fine." - Joe A., 2011

I'll answer your other comments later, but my primary priority for the rest of the evening is to get drunk." - Klaus, 12/31/14
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CrashTest
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This one was chosen for me, as it was setup.

It'd be an interesting pattern, but I never knew the other women were already in relationships before I tried.
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Horace
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Then why did she agree to go out on a date?
As a good person, I implore you to do as I, a good person, do. Be good. Do NOT be bad. If you see bad, end bad. End it in yourself, and end it in others. By any means necessary, the good must conquer the bad. Good people know this. Do you know this? Are you good?
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CrashTest
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My friends set it up that way, but it was always unclear to both her and I if it was a full date, or a date/hang out type of thing.
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Mikhailoh
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If you want trouble, find yourself a redhead
You spend entirely too much energy on non-dates. Go get your own women.

Besides.. if she wanted to be with you or someone else she would do it regardless of her 'situtaion'.
Once in his life, every man is entitled to fall madly in love with a gorgeous redhead - Lucille Ball
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JBryan
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I am the grey one
So, did you bone her?
"Any man who would make an X rated movie should be forced to take his daughter to see it". - John Wayne


There is a line we cross when we go from "I will believe it when I see it" to "I will see it when I believe it".


Henry II: I marvel at you after all these years. Still like a democratic drawbridge: going down for everybody.

Eleanor: At my age there's not much traffic anymore.

From The Lion in Winter.
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kenny
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JBryan
Sep 9 2006, 08:57 PM
So, did you bone her?

What are you trying to say?
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