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Bullies?; Have you ever been bullied? If so, how?
Topic Started: Oct 22 2005, 10:44 AM (1,571 Views)
tricksterchild
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(I have nothing againsst preps!! I have good friends who are preps.. Its just the sex obsessed ones that get on my nerves) WEll in CCD, there's this girl and she's a poser rapper and she bugs me!!! She calls me names (mean names) :annoyed:
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I've finally set up an Anti-bullying forum, also I am now pleased to say that my bullying is getting sorted out! Yey!

But I feel extreamly sorry for those who are still being bullied though. I hope it all gets sorted out for you dudes and dudettes too!
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Even though my bullying is behind me, I still find that it has left me scarred for life. I do have problems with me socially becuase I have a REALLY hard time trusting people. It makes me mad with myself that I haven't outgrown this...I'm not sure if I'll ever outgrow it. Chances are I won't...and I hate that because I feel that I'll be alone forever.
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Hey, you got us buddy. As for me, I was bullied, yes,.....for 4 years/ It was all because I had no confidence. I had lived with my mothers abusive boyfriend and he was NOT a nice guy. I was a scared little boy, when I cam up north to live with my family. I blew up easily when people made fun of me. My mother also had died so it was a sensitive subject and when people found out, I was teased mercilessly. The only reason I think that I didnt get into fights, was I had no self-esteem and I talked with guidance counselors daily. Eventually, I tried being nice and soon within a year, I was a normal kid and was known as the most friendly person. Isnt that weird? @_@ If anyone wants to talk about anything, let me know. Cause if there's one thing that helps, its talking about it. :thanks:
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The main reson I was bullied was partially due to my self esteem. That and I was different. I didn't listen to the same music (didn't listen to any music), didn't play any sports, wasn't strong. I was just a funny person and I made people laugh but no one really wanted to be fun with the funny kid.
I had violent thoughts that shame me to even think about today. When I got into highschool, I hadn't seen these people in so long-I did grade 8 at a different school and it probably saved my life or sanity because I made great friends there-and they would say how they thought what had happened to me was awful-these were the people that did it mind you-and then they would laugh about it when a funny beating came back into their memory. It reminded me of the Germans after WWII. All saying, "Oh, we had no idea of what was happening," or "We did it because other people did it." It made me hate them even more and it made me really mad when people who hated that it happened just sat there and let it happen and would still associate with these people.
Do I wish I could do it differently?
You bet.
Can I?
Sadly, no.
But one thing I can do is get the message out there. Don't be silent about bullying. We need to have our voices out there, we need to be heard and we need to send a message that we will one day rise up, look out the window...and see those who bullied us cleaning our pools.
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Yeah, low self esteem can often be a cause of bullying. And you're very right, no one should suffer in silence, it's the worst thing you could do *points at arm* that's what silence done to me.

But if any of you are still worried about bullying I've set up an Anti-Bullying website (in my signature) it gives you a lot of helpful hints on how to stop bullying ad stuff.

And remember...you have a right to remain silent but you also have a right to speak.
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I got bullied ALL the time...yep. It's because I have braces and glasses...also because of my A.D.H.D.. A.D.H.D. is where your really hyper and can't focus well.
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^ I think people need to lay off you a little.

I know nothings beed posted in here for a while but things are beginning to get outta hand at my school.

Well, I've been bullied for an EXTREAMLY long time. I'm used to most of it now. But the other week some kid decided it was funny to yob a hockey stick at my head. The edge of it caught me. I ended up holding an ice pack on my head. Then of course people play that game 'beat up and laugh at Giulia' so yah, they all come up to me and hit and kick me then go and have a laugh about it. And today, this boy (Lee) and his little cronies decided to throw meat at me. It went in my bag and everything. They even threw a sandwitch at me and it hit me between the eyes. And everytime we have a sport such as hockey in PE people take that as a opportunity to run past and hit me as hard as they can over the legs. It really hurts.

I'm reporting quite a few people tomorrow because I've just had enough.
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One word: Slut. That's what they all call me. And I'm a BOY!
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I encourage anyone who is being physically bullied to take up boxing or karate. Learn the skills necessary to fighting and then the next time that person puts their hands on you, tell them, "Don't touch me...or I'll touch you back." And once they touch you...that's when you strike
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I do that sometimes. I am an orange belt. That's level 3. I cant help it. I was born in Japan.
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I'm really, really sorry to hear about you guys being bullied. *hugs everyone*

I've been bullied. Not anymore though. My new friends pwn.

I'm thankful to say that it was never physical...but verbal bullying. I guess sometimes it's just as bad. They say "Sticks and stones.." but I don't think that's strictly true.

I mean, imagine you're feeling really low, then someone comes and starts jeering at you, and yelling at you. Would that hurt you? Well, it certainly hurt me.

They used to say a lot of things. Freak, weirdo, b*tch and suchlike. Though I'm really not that weird. It was just because I was clever and they were jealous - not meaning to sound big-headed, but that's the way it was.

Example? I'd get 100% on my homework, and they'd get a 20 because they'd done it 5 minutes before the lesson. And they'd take it out on me as if I'd done well on purpose just to get one up on them. How ridiculous. As if I would bother.

Right up to the age of 18 this happened to me...in other respects too. They'd pass notes around the class about me. Mature.

They'd call me a "skyving wh*re" if I was ever off ill [and I had Glandula so I was ill for quite some time]. Skyver means someone who skips class for people who don't know - I don't know if you use that phrase in USA.

The only time they got physical was when I would be stood in the corridor with loads of books and then they'd come and knock me so I dropped everything.

I'm tiny, [hence the nickname], and I'm a girl. And the people who were bullying me? Three 6 foot or maybe taller guys. They played sport, were in the popular crowd and were generally complete asses.

I hated them so much. Looking back I guess what they did was quite petty, but at the time it caused me so much serious damage.

I feel so lucky that I've got such fantastic friends at Uni who are lovely to me and treat me like a human. When I tell them about stuff like this they don't understand why - they say that I'm too nice to be bullied.

That's just the point tho', isn't it? They bullied me cause they knew they could get away with it.

Looking back I'm sickened that I let them.
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Cool that you let those guys have it Frungus 2. How far away from a black belt is orange?
I always hope for the best...experience unfortunately has taught me to expect otherwise
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It is a good day to die, Duras...and the day is not yet over
-Worf
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um ive been pushed around at school but its only by BOYS which is really weird
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Blah... third grade, idiotic fifth grader who liked to push me around, steal my stuff, endlessly make fun of me, insult me, et cetera, et cetera. The idiot's name was Kelsey. I seriously hate her.

And if no escape from being made fun of counts as bullying, I put up with it from 500 kids every school day of my life.
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