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OK guys, your opinion real quick...; (choco's girlfriend has posted btw)
Topic Started: Monday 31-05-2010, 05:23 (1,251 Views)
wit
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I'm going to go out on a limb here and agree with kriemhilde.

As twisted and unfair as it is, the woman always wants you on the short leash (if they say they don't, they're just mad because they don't have you on the short leash) and they always want you to do (in their eyes) "the right thing" and be this almost Mary Sue of a person; bring her napkins when she is weeping, massage her when she is sore, listen to her trivial problems, etc. Basically be a caring and appreciative person in the relationship. Now, from my knowledge of what goes down most sitcoms, this NEVER fucking happens. When she weeps the boyfriend avoids comforting here, when she hints at how sore she is.. the guy is clueless, when she wants to "talk" he lets out a grunt and has a face of disappointment.

So, no matter what she agreed to and no matter how OK she seemed with it her argument is going to be all the same.

What you should have done: Chase after her, comfort her ask her if she wants to talk, listen to her 20min explanation which could have been simply summarized into: "I didn't feel comfortable about it", be understanding and continue as usual.

What you did: Fuck it, I mean she brought it up right. I'm going to destroy a cunt tonight!

Again, as unfair as it may sound; She always wants you to take the inattentive to make her happy and make the relationship great. It wasn't technically cheating, but in her eyes and technicalities you are a dirty pig for not doing "the right thing"
Edited by wit, Monday 31-05-2010, 16:19.
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AttleboroTaco
Monday 31-05-2010, 16:01
Not being a dick if its true >_>
It's not true, you're just a dumbass
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TacoOfTheOpera
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No one has proved me wrong yet, so therefore it's still true.
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TacoOfTheOpera
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inc Choco Novel
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kriemhilde
Monday 31-05-2010, 15:41
I have my fair share of experience with how threesome relations work and don't work.
At the risk of detailing my own topic...details, Kriem. The Chock wants them.
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TacoOfTheOpera
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wow how anti-climatic choco.
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Monday 31-05-2010, 16:22
kriemhilde
Monday 31-05-2010, 15:41
I have my fair share of experience with how threesome relations work and don't work.
At the risk of detailing my own topic...details, Kriem. The Chock wants them.
Y'all have NO idea, nor will you. Probably. I've told people I trust and/or have been in similar situations.
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Choco
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Okay, Kriem ain't telling (though she could PM The Choco, cuz she can trust him). Lets get back to the topic at hand. I still don't see it.
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Monday 31-05-2010, 05:55
l:
I actually don't think you did the right thing. You should have only gone ahead with it if she did also. Because she decided not to do it, then from my view, you shouldn't have either.
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Lady_tentacle
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But it was partly her own fault.
I mean, you're really stupid to promiss your bf a threesome and then cancel it,
That's a mild version of torture.

I wonder if my bf would like a threesome...
brb, asking my bf if he wants a threesome...
Maybe I should test this situation...
Like, doing the same thing as what she did.

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Although I personally wouldn't have done it, partially because I probably would've got in trouble afterwards and partially because it's morally suspect at best, but she was more in the wrong than you were and I don't blame you.

LT
 
I wonder if my bf would like a threesome...
brb, asking my bf if he wants a threesome...
Maybe I should test this situation...
Like, doing the same thing as what she did.
Are you sure that's a good idea LT? That's if you're serious. I mean the original part didn't work out well and I know that if I was this close to getting a threesome and then getting it yanked away from it I would throw a major hissy fit, at least in my head. <_<
Edited by OHJOY90, Monday 31-05-2010, 18:27.
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Lady_tentacle
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Well,
I asked my bf if he wanted to have a threesome sometime, this is his answer:

Neen. :SERIOUS:

Zoals je heel goed wist, trouwens. Met wie ben je nu weer over seks aan het praten? :FAG:



This is the translation xD:

Nope :SERIOUS: (emoticon)
Like you already knew btw, with who are you talking about sex this time? :FAG: (emoticon)
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Luca
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I don't know how the fuck I'd respond if my girlfriend wanted a threesome. I'd feel very wary about what this would do to our relationship in the long-term but my dick would be screaming GO FOR IT and it'd be hard to ignore.

I mean my libido doesn't control my mind on most things but if it was at her suggestion it'd be very hard to ignore. I hope that if this situation ever arises it does so without any prior warning.
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wit
Monday 31-05-2010, 16:03
It wasn't technically cheating, but in her eyes and technicalities you are a dirty pig for not doing "the right thing"
Technically it is cheating. I don't see how it's unfair either.. She offered something that would add something to their sex life but didn't go through with it. That's not a fuck-another-woman-for-free card.

She's pretty damn stupid for even considering suggesting it if she wasn't 100% sure she wanted to do it, even more stupid for just walking about and not asking Choco to cancel the agreement. But hell, it is cheating.
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8bit!
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which ones got the better feet, i say, wait what were we talking about.

oh yeah....

I dont think it was cheating, but then again i dont think it was right to, i hate inner conflicts like that, because they sometimes turn into outer conflicts.
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Luca
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It is decreed that one shall pound the pillars.
I think she's pretty damn stupid for instigating the thing and then leaving without another word on the subject (or so is my understanding). If she's going to pull shit like that then the relationship is destined to fail anyway so Choco may as well fuck all the other women he pleases. :choco:
Edited by Luca, Tuesday 1-06-2010, 12:50.
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Phazon
Monday 31-05-2010, 10:31
For the record though, if I were offered a threesome with my girlfriend I would turn it down because I'm just that lame
Hi everyone.. I'm Choco's girlfriend. I agree with the girls for saying that threesome is wrong and it's really considered cheating. I personallly believe if you are in a relationship and you know, you and your man is killing it in the bed and it's enjoyable why have someone else. Having someone else results anger and rage. Sex is the activity everyone enjoys, and besides that it also puts you and your partner closer together. Making reference to his gay ex-girlfriend. She is was a failure, she doesn't know good sense and how to take care of her man. In logical sense Choco has upgraded with his relationship; meaning with the sex and the blow jobs he gets, makes him look forward for another day alone with me.

Going to the men who agreed with Choco about his idea of the threesome, I don't blame you for looking for one when you know your relationship is shit. Meaning you don't get blowjobs, you don't get pussy, you don't get shit. That's DEPRESSING right there.

Overall threesome is lame.Totally agree with PHAZON... I love the respect you showed and the gratitude that was presented in your post. I know Choco has respect for me and himself. And I totally trust him and love him.
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Cole
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I don't see it as you cheating on her. She allowed things to go far enough that the point of no return had been reached. Instead of just leaving the room she should have put her foot down and told the other honky bitch to hit the bricks. I'm also kind of down with the idea of an open relationship, but that's just me and my fucked up views.
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Cole
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But of course I'm not a complete delusional fool and can see that what wit said is what a normal person should have done.
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You don't need to have a sexual relationship to love someone l:
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