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I hate my life.; Can someone give me advise?
Topic Started: Aug 4 2005, 01:18 AM (170 Views)
Hime
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Like the title says I hate my life. I'm getting so tried of my mom dating guys(in the last 2 months she had 2 boyfriends). You would think after getting deforced 2 times would be enough for her. Ever since I was little I grew up without a father, that jerk left my mom because he thought we got in the way of things. He visted us(I have a big sister who is 16), not much but he did, but he always ignored me and payed attention to my sister. When I was 8 we moved to Holland where my mom married another Jerk. He was so lazy and yelled at me a lot. There I met my best friend we spent 3 years together. After my mom saw that he was a jerk she left to go back to the US with me and my sis.

I really miss my best friend, it's been two years and I seem not to get over the fact that I might never see her again. I hate my new school as well. Everyone makes fun of me because I came from Holland, they did that in Holland because I came from the US. If my mom finds another person to marry we will probably end up moving again.(Since I was born I have traveling around, a week after I was born we moved to the US, and after that I have been moving non stop.) Thats the story of my life <_<

I'm sick and tried of my mom dating but I don't know what to say to her. She looks so happy. Any suggestions?
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Mega NRG Man
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Hmm.. how old are you right now?

Cos if you are old enough, you can get a job. That way you can stay away from the house a bit. Save up and go visit your best friend. I dunno really.

My mum was like that a few years ago until she got pregnant. My lil sister is now 3 years old (turning 4 in November) and she has stopped dating other people. Which is good, whenever she was out she rarely left food ready. Now that i know how to cook abit she is home all the time >_< well.. not all the time, she has a job at a restaurant as the restaurant supervisor or something. =\

You should tell your mum that you don't want her to be dating other people, start spending some more time with her or something. Tell her that you are starting to feel regected, you are having problems at school.

or umm..... oh i suck at giving advises. >_<
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My advice.....Just try to have ur mom go out with the right guys. I mean, u r her kid, and she'll have to listen to u, no matter what. My mom asked my brother and I before she remarried, so I think ur mom should be doin the same. Oh, and voice ur opinions, sure, they might hurt her feelings at first, but in the long run, I'd rather hurt my mom's feelins then have her spend any time of her life with a jerk. But it kinda really depends on how ur outlook of things is. Heh...just do what u think is best, and u can't go too wrong. ^.^


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To answer you're question Mega NRG Man, I'm 13(Turning 14 in a week) I'm going to start my first year of high school I can't get a job. I have tried to talk to her but it's a little hard when she is mostly at work or with her friends and I can never seem to talk to her alone =/
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I hate my life

Welcome to the club.....sorry to hear all of that....
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Mega NRG Man
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Kiriko is right, voice your opinion. Hell, you may not get what you hoped for, but it's better than not saying anything. At least you'll be able to say "I tried to help my mum"


hmm, i guess the job advise won't work then. :P
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Aug 4 2005, 01:18 AM
Like the title says I hate my life. I'm getting so tried of my mom dating guys(in the last 2 months she had 2 boyfriends). You would think after getting deforced 2 times would be enough for her. Ever since I was little I grew up without a father, that jerk left my mom because he thought we got in the way of things. He visted us(I have a big sister who is 16), not much but he did, but he always ignored me and payed attention to my sister. When I was 8 we moved to Holland where my mom married another Jerk. He was so lazy and yelled at me a lot. There I met my best friend we spent 3 years together. After my mom saw that he was a jerk she left to go back to the US with me and my sis.

I really miss my best friend, it's been two years and I seem not to get over the fact that I might never see her again. I hate my new school as well. Everyone makes fun of me because I came from Holland, they did that in Holland because I came from the US. If my mom finds another person to marry we will probably end up moving again.(Since I was born I have traveling around, a week after I was born we moved to the US, and after that I have been moving non stop.) Thats the story of my life <_<

I'm sick and tried of my mom dating but I don't know what to say to her. She looks so happy. Any suggestions?

1st - People have a life and it's normal. Your mom wants to live too. U can do nothing about it.

2nd - School. Well, don't let they to broke u. Be stronger. When i was a kid my schoolmates were kidding at me as i came from German. I was higher than that and now it's ok.
And not school is gilty here. U are. U shown your self this way they can bully u. Now, since u made mistake, show your best side. They will respect u more day after day.
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Xenogias
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I agree with Kenzoki.
Problems come and go, you'll mostly be taking alot of BS when your a kid. But you really cant bother your mother with something like that. Shes got a life too (like Kanzoki said). Shes probably just looking to be with somebody, just because shes been divorced twice doesn't mean she has to give up on trying to find someone she wants to be with.

My mom had a previous marriage before she met my dad (I dont really have any real brothers, their all half brothers - I got 1 half brother and 1 step brother and 1 half sister). Hopefully im born to end this retarded chain of existence.

My mom divorced my father when I was a kid anyway, I now live with her and her boyfriend/husband (shes really not making it clear if she married the guy - but hese been living here for 2-3 years now - I dont really talk to him either, I just walk by and pretend hese not even in the house - he and I dont get along because of something that happened in the past).

But hey, im not complaining, I got a job, im making money and im buying the things I want. The only thing im missing is a girl... its been a year or two since I saw my ex... Julia... I miss wrapping my arms around a girls weist... just laying my head next to their shoulders... mmeeh, i've kinda given up on that... but I still miss it :/

Anyway, hang in there HIME. Life is random, sometimes you get more good than bad, sometimes you get more bad than good, it really depends on the choices and actions you make, which is why I wish the people in this world would think a little bit more logically.
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Hecks, I think my life sucks too. HA!
But ohh wells, I'm trying to find the things that I have that'll keep me happy, until I go kill myself.

At least you still have your mother. My mother was an ass and got remarried 1 year after my father's death and ditched my whole family and left us behind. And force my little sister to live with her and turned her into this little snotty little bitch who has a freaken attitude. Even though i curse the living hell out of my mother, i still hope for the best, she had reasons to do the thing she do. But I will never forgive her, untill she gets done paying for my college..hehe...using isnt bad...=) she even willing to pay for my wedding, if i ever get married, thats nice.

For now hime, just wish the best for your mother and yourself. trying finding things that will hopefully will make you cope with yourself. do thing, and find things that make you happy and your mother.
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dont do sh*t like suicide if u get pissed ever, ull leave soon and start a life at 18 don worry
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You know what?Go in your moms face and tell her how you feel.Ask her what is more important.Do something.Tell stop dating random guys.You should find one for her.Have a long talk.It might hurt but it will all be worth it.Trust me
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