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"thinking like an adult"
Topic Started: Tuesday, 30. June 2009, 13:43 (645 Views)
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There have been many admiring comments on the Pope's homily given at first Vespers of the Feast of Saints Peter and Paul but so far a full English translation hasn't appeared. Rorate Caeli has this excerpt:
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In the last few decades, the expression ‘adult faith’ [fede adulta, 'grown up faith'] has become a widespread slogan. It is often used in relation to the attitudes of those who no longer pay attention to what the Church and her Pastors say — which is to say, those who choose on their own what to believe or not to believe in a sort of ‘do-it-yourself’ faith. Expressing oneself against the Magisterium of the Church is presented as a sort of ‘courage’, whereas in fact not much courage is needed because one can be certain of receiving public praise.

Instead, courage is needed to adhere to the Church’s faith, even if it contradicts the 'order' of today’s world. Paul calls this non-conformism an ‘adult faith’. For him, following the prevailing winds and currents of the time is childish.

For this reason, it is part of an adult faith to dedicate oneself to the inviolability of life from its beginning, thus radically opposing the principle of violence, in defence precisely of the most defenceless. It is part of an adult faith to recognize the lifelong marriage between one man and one woman in accordance with the Creator’s order, re-established again by Christ. An adult faith does not follow any current here and there. It stands against the winds of fashion.

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Isn't that so true, the expression "adult faith" is so often used as an excuse to disagree with Church teaching.
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Isn't that so true, the expression "adult faith" is so often used as an excuse to disagree with Church teaching.
Nobody under the age of twenty in our rural Catholic Community is likely to know a thing about specifically Catholic Church teaching. We don't get sermons about that sort of thing, we do hear about Jesus, and we are encouraged to get involved with Churches Together, where the leader of a prayer commenced

"Lord we are here together from the Anglican, Methodist, Catholic and Evangelical Communities, and some from a house group. Lord it makes no difference to you which church we go to, those words are only labels."

but......

there is never any mention of teachings held by the Catholic Church, and not be the people who have the other so-called labels. At our place, when you kick the bucket, your mates get told you've gone through a curtain and you're happy. There is no teaching about the indissolubility of marriage, sexual morality, Papal infallibility. We are not the only Catholic community with this problem. If our priests do not have to meet certain minimum standards, what hope for Catholics who have not been to Catholic schools? It is not their fault they do not know about the authority of the Magisterium.

But for the good solid Catholic teaching I had from my parents, teachers, and a lot of priests, I might as well pop round the corner to the vibrant Methodist community.
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There is a problem running through many threads in this forum which is that people do not seem to understand that the sermon is not meant to be an Apologetic or Catechism class it is meant to break open the word of God proclaimed in the readings at that mass. There may well be other occasions in parish groups or lent talks, Advent groups etc, all of which I have lead in the past and know many of my colleagues have done the same, at which the teaching of the church is explained, it is also often included on the bulletin if you are fortunate enough to get some pre-printed from organisations such as the Redemptorists. The pope used an opportunity in the service of vespers to give the homily which is not strictly correct according to the liturgists but since he is the Pope he can do as he likes, your parish Priest does not have that freedom.
Also I am assuming that the teenagers of your parish have been confirmed, given Holy Communion and Confession so they will have the basics of their Faith. What they will not have is a load of the superstitious mumbo jumbo that was so off putting to my sisters and many of their Contemporaries and indeed many of the young today, do not underestimate the amount of energy and resources’ that have been directed into youth education if your PP and parish are not taking advantage of it then ask yourself 3 questions,
1 Is it happening but because you are not the target audience you are not included?
2 If it defiantly is not happening what are you doing to encourage it?
3 Is it the faith you want them taught or the superstition because much of what people complain the young do not know belongs firmly in superstation and not the true teaching of the church?
If you want to think and behave like adults then attend the groups and ask for evening classes or catechism sessions, don't shoot the priest for not providing it in the sermon that is not what the sermon is for.
Also in this age of respecting people and treating them as adults many people can now read and there is no shortage of excelant publications available to cater for all levals of faith enquiry. Use your inteligence and read them and as we are doing here discuss matters of concern or uncertainty.

Finally if the past was so wonderful and the teaching so clear and well provided why are the churches so empty today and why are so few coming forward for the priesthood. I suggest that it was because all that wonderful teaching you speek of was not so wonderful after all. I almost feel myself agreeing with Mairtin's comments about HV... almost :rofl: lets not get too carried away.
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Tuesday, 30. June 2009, 16:16
3 Is it the faith you want them taught or the superstition because much of what people complain the young do not know belongs firmly in superstation and not the true teaching of the church?
In my case, no. I was not taught superstition by the Sisters of Notre Dame, the then Bishop John Carmel Heenan (who gave us monthly talks with discussion in Sixth Form) or by the Catholic teacher who served on the Leeds Diocesan Catechism, and produced the drafts for every chapter of John Carmel Heenan's book, Our Faith, aimed at teenagers. Parts of it were superseded by Vatican 2. I am that woman's daughter. Believe me, I had an excellent grounding in the teachings of the Catholic Faith, and later made a point of learning a lot about the changes in practice, introduced by Vatican 2.

I am still learning!

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Rose I do not doubt it for moment that you are still learning indeed I am sure that is why most of us are in this forum, to explore and share our faith. The problem is that so many did not have your advantage.
My mother is a wonderful woman and yet as a child I remember her being almost paranoid about hoovering in the sanctuary and as a small boy I would change the veil on the tabernacle because she would not touch it. This is the folk law that she and many others believed to be the true teaching of the church, women should not step into the sanctuary, sadly it became so entrenched in folk law that many still regard it as of divine inspiration, thankfully not my mother who now hoovers away only paranoid that the PP will find her and she will be Volunteered for another job and a 79 she is doing quite enough, though I can't say that out loud her ears will burn and I will get a phone call. :hammer: :handbags:
There are many other such superstitions which became entangled into the “Teaching of the Church.” The council of Trent got rid of a few and Vat II cleared out a great deal but there are many remaining and more being invented. +
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Tuesday, 30. June 2009, 16:16
There is a problem running through many threads in this forum which is that people do not seem to understand that the sermon is not meant to be an Apologetic or Catechism class it is meant to break open the word of God proclaimed in the readings at that mass.
I think most if not all of us know that. When the sermon is the only teaching given I personally like to hear the teachings of the Word of God related to how we should put them into practice.

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There may well be other occasions in parish groups or lent talks, Advent groups etc, all of which I have lead in the past and know many of my colleagues have done the same, at which the teaching of the church is explained, it is also often included on the bulletin if you are fortunate enough to get some pre-printed from organisations such as the Redemptorists.

If only we could have those things! We get nothing, despite retired teachers, trained catechists and others having offered. We do have the pre-printed sheets now, we never used to.

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The pope used an opportunity in the service of vespers to give the homily which is not strictly correct according to the liturgists but since he is the Pope he can do as he likes, your parish Priest does not have that freedom.

wanna bet? Having the freedom and independently opting for freedom are different.

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Also I am assuming that the teenagers of your parish have been confirmed, given Holy Communion and Confession so they will have the basics of their Faith.

They have indeed been taught for Holy Communion, Confession and Confirmation, but that's their lot. They have a few weeks instruction, then a break for a few years, then a few more weeks. Ongoing teaching is needed by all, whatever our age.
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What they will not have is a load of the superstitious mumbo jumbo that was so off putting to my sisters and many of their Contemporaries and indeed many of the young today, do not underestimate the amount of energy and resources’ that have been directed into youth education if your PP and parish are not taking advantage of it then ask yourself 3 questions,
1 Is it happening but because you are not the target audience you are not included?
2 If it defiantly is not happening what are you doing to encourage it?
3 Is it the faith you want them taught or the superstition because much of what people complain the young do not know belongs firmly in superstation and not the true teaching of the church?

1 It is not happening for any age group.
2 I tried to encourage it, but my pleadings fell on deaf ears. My husband, a convert, turned to EWTN for continued Catholic education, he had no other option.
3 Please don't be rude, I did not learn superstition and I do not want anybody else to learn superstition.
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If you want to think and behave like adults then attend the groups and ask for evening classes or catechism sessions, don't shoot the priest for not providing it in the sermon that is not what the sermon is for.

Penfold, we cannot hold guns at priests' heads. One parish priest will make a tremendous effort in the fields of youth and adult formation, his replacement might decide not to bother. One can ask. What do you suggest we do when requests repeatedly fall upon deaf ears? I have known some very good priests, in rural and urban areas, but it really is the luck of the draw.
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Also in this age of respecting people and treating them as adults many people can now read and there is no shortage of excelant publications available to cater for all levals of faith enquiry. Use your inteligence and read them and as we are doing here discuss matters of concern or uncertainty.

Good advice, but we need to stimulate appetites, we cannot force people to read anything!
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Finally if the past was so wonderful and the teaching so clear and well provided why are the churches so empty today and why are so few coming forward for the priesthood.

The past was not all wonderful, I have never said it was, and I for one welcomed The Second Vatican Council. My opinion is, churches were packed, partly by people with strong faith and partly by people who did not dare face peer or family pressure if they owned up to not wanting to be there. All the churches with which I was familiar had lots of men at the back, who arrived for the beginning of the Offertory and left at the Last Gospel, insurance policy to avoid Hell Fire.
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I suggest that it was because all that wonderful teaching you speek of was not so wonderful after all. I almost feel myself agreeing with Mairtin's comments about HV... almost :rofl: lets not get too carried away.

My early religious education was great. I know, I was there.
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Penfold,

If the sermon is meant to break open the word of God according to the Reading for the day surely, using a bit of sense, the preacher should be able to bring some "catechism" into it. It seems to me, that in this day and age, many priests are too "politically correct" and sometimes fear offending those of "adult faith". Surely, purity, respect for the Eucharist, sanctity of marriage and many other things can be incorporated into a sermon on the Readings.
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"Finally if the past was so wonderful and the teaching so clear"

From my memory it is true that the teaching was clear. What was a mortal sin, what was not etc.etc.However, what we call today 'transparency' certainly was not so then. Now that the internet is available and almost every church docuemt accessible, transparency is very evident. That to my mind is one of the essential differences between then and now. On the other side of the coin - obedience nowadays is not given the priority that it did years ago - and the blame for this does not lie with the Church but with the secularists. Just my few odd thoughts.

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In the heyday of the Tridentine Holy Mass it seemed the Last Blessing and "Ita Missa Est" was the best understood part. This was why priests used to complain about the people leaving early. An Irishman living in this country once returned after a visit to Ireland. He went to church on a Sunday morning and found a crowd outside; he was impressed until the end when he discovered there had been plenty of room in the church. As a doorkeeper for awhile I found it impossible to move people away from blocking the doorway itself although there was plenty of space away from it. Visitors and latecomers would be welcomed by a group of almost immovable backs.
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Benedict XVI
 
In the last few decades, the expression ‘adult faith’ [fede adulta, 'grown up faith'] has become a widespread slogan. It is often used in relation to the attitudes of those who no longer pay attention to what the Church and her Pastors say — which is to say, those who choose on their own what to believe or not to believe in a sort of ‘do-it-yourself’ faith. Expressing oneself against the Magisterium of the Church is presented as a sort of ‘courage’, whereas in fact not much courage is needed because one can be certain of receiving public praise.

Instead, courage is needed to adhere to the Church’s faith, even if it contradicts the 'order' of today’s world. Paul calls this non-conformism an ‘adult faith’. For him, following the prevailing winds and currents of the time is childish.

For this reason, it is part of an adult faith to dedicate oneself to the inviolability of life from its beginning, thus radically opposing the principle of violence, in defence precisely of the most defenceless. It is part of an adult faith to recognize the lifelong marriage between one man and one woman in accordance with the Creator’s order, re-established again by Christ. An adult faith does not follow any current here and there. It stands against the winds of fashion.

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Is refusal to accept Church teaching often due to secular media misreporting, in a slanted manner, the preaching, writings and speeches of Popes and bishops? The TV and newspapers have the ability to subtly brainwash.
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The Pope's homily at Vespers of Sts Peter & Paul is still not available in English, but greater details are given by Agenzia Fides . The following quote puts the original quote in context, as a reflection on the letter to Ephesians
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The need to renew our way of being a human person, is expressed by Paul in two passage of the Letter to the Ephesians, upon which the Pope dwelt: “In chapter four of the Letter, the Apostle tells us that with Christ we must reach adult age, mature humanity … Paul wishes Christians to have faith which is ‘responsible’, ‘adult’ ” not be mistaken for “the attitude of those who have stopped listening to the Church and the Bishops, and who autonomously choose what to believe and what not to believe”. Benedict XVI then indicated as examples of adult faith, commitment to promote respect for the “inviolability of human life from the first moment” and “acknowledging matrimony between and man and a woman for life, as the order of the Creator, restored by Christ ”, and he underlined, “ adult faith does not let itself be carried here and there by different currents. It withstands the winds of fashion. It knows that these winds do not blow from the Holy Spirit”.
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The Pope's homily is posted Here
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Tuesday, 30. June 2009, 16:16
Finally if the past was so wonderful and the teaching so clear and well provided why are the churches so empty today ...
I think that comparisons with the past are a waste of time, the approaches taken in the past were to a very different society in a totally different set of circumstances. The three key differences that I see are:

  1. The vast majority of Catholics, like the population at large, had a very limited education and most of what they did get restricted to primary school level. People generally didn’t have the training or the encouragement to think for themselves; education – including religious education – was taught by rote with little attention given to teaching an understanding of what was being imparted. Every single rule was spelled out for evety imaginable circumstance, all manner of sins were clearly defined, “ordinary” people were discouraged from reading the Bible and we were told exactly what secular books we could and could not read. Nowadays everybody goes to second level and many to third level, including from the traditional ‘working class’; learning by rote has largely disappeared and the emphasis is on understanding how and why things are done rather than simply just learning how to do them. People nowadays don’t ask “What is a sin?”, they ask “Why is that a sin?”

    Tied in with the changes in the formal education system is the informal education through the printed media, television and radio and now the Internet where conventional and traditional ideas are constantly challenged and debated.

  2. People accepted higher authority more readily on a secular level, never mind a spiritual one, few people would have argued with or challenged the opinion of a doctor, a teacher or a policeman, let alone a priest. Nowadays, respect for authority has all but evaporated. A big part of that is the discovery that traditional figures of authority have feet of clay and those feet get great publicity; it is hard to have great respect for a Prime Minister whose female colleague and part-time lover talks on television about his taste in underpants; or to take seriously a future king when lurid tapes are publicly played of him telling his mistress exactly what he would like to do to her. The big change is that people no longer get respect just because of the position they occupy, they have to earn respect as individuals.

  3. The Church had far more resources available to her. When I attended Catholic grammar school just over 40 years ago, roughly half the teachers were priests – diocesan priests at that, my school was not run by an order. That meant that a Catholic ethos totally permeated the school ethos. Nowadays, there is not even one priest teaching in that scool.

    At the same time, the parish I grew up in had a Parish Priest and 3 curates so priests were always out and about, calling into homes, spending time in the schools and so on. Nowadays that same parish is covered by a Parish Priest on his own.

    Presumably, the Vatican too has suffered from the decline and doesn’t have the same army of full time theologians that it had forty years ago with the time to ruminate on some of the rather more esoteric aspects of our religion.

Although he has kept rather quiet about in since becoming Pope, Cardinal Ratzinger many times expressed the view that we are going to have a much smaller and leaner church but the positive side of that is that the people who stay will be more committed to their Faith; along with that, he has expressed the personal hope that we will see the Church returning to her roots and becoming much more like what she was in the earliest days.

I think that a much leaner set of rules and a much lighter regulatory touch that emphasises people’s intentions rather than their actions would be a welcome aspect of that and would indeed be much closer to the Church of the Apostles.
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Much, if not all of your post Mairtin, was in my opinion very well put together. So not much to comment upon.

"The big change is that people no longer get respect just because of the position they occupy, they have to earn respect as individuals."

'Respect' - yes, perhaps first for themelves and then for others.

"Although he has kept rather quiet about in since becoming Pope, Cardinal Ratzinger many times expressed the view that we are going to have a much smaller and leaner church."

As Cardinal - one thing; as Pope quite another.

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I think that a much leaner set of rules and a much lighter regulatory touch that emphasises people’s intentions rather than their actions would be a welcome aspect of that and would indeed be much closer to the Church of the Apostles.


Mairtin I agree with many of your observations but just a small note of caution regarding emphasis on intentions.

Saint Bernard of Clairvaux (1091-1153), as "Hell is full of good intentions or desires."

but more importantly Jesus tells us.

Mt 7: 16-20
16 You will be able to tell them by their fruits. Can people pick grapes from thorns, or figs from thistles?
17 In the same way, a sound tree produces good fruit but a rotten tree bad fruit.
18 A sound tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor a rotten tree bear good fruit.
19 Any tree that does not produce good fruit is cut down and thrown on the fire.
20 I repeat, you will be able to tell them by their fruits.

I also would prefer to live in a world where my actions rather than my thoughts are governed by the law.

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