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| Topic Started: Thursday, 12. February 2009, 21:18 (269 Views) | |
| JRJ | Thursday, 25. June 2009, 00:05 Post #16 |
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The UK civil legal standard for making accommodations for special needs is similar to ours in the US. Our Parish is located in one of the poorest counties in our state and we are "poor" by the standards of some of the large city parishes but the people always come through - I wrote in another post about the funds to replace the rectory roof being collected at Christmas by some of our poorest families - immigrants. I'm not sure how a middle-sized parish like ours ended up with so many Deacons - it's a great blessing. I think we have about 500-600 families. (My home parish was huge and one of the wealthiest in the state, which Father did not fail to point out several times a year .)I think attitude is the key, and ignorance/lack of experience fuels fear. It can be frightening to put oneself forward to a person or family with special needs - we avoid suffering. I am uncomfortable, too, but decided long ago to just push right through and ask the questions I had - most families appreciate being able to explain so interactions are fruitful instead of confusing. Edited by JRJ, Thursday, 25. June 2009, 00:14.
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| Joe Valente | Thursday, 25. June 2009, 17:29 Post #17 |
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Pete, I enjoyed that story about your son Keith, it brought on one of my "grandfatherly" smiles. I wish I had been there because that is as good a blessing as anyone will ever receive. Give him a pat on the back from me. |
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| pete | Thursday, 25. June 2009, 23:45 Post #18 |
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Joe thank you, I could write a book about the embarrassing moments Keith has caused us, he once curtsied to the congregation at the end of Mass. The one that surpasses all, the day Keith was confirmed in Dumbarton in Scotland. It was a special Mass just for Keith and a celebration party had been arranged for him by the ladies of the parish. Keith, my wife and I were special guests and singled out to sit in three individual seats at the front of a packed church. As we sat listening to the glowing comments about Keith by the Naval Chaplin, who was in the company of three further concelebrating priests, one could have heard a pin drop. It was at this point Keith broke wind, the loud noise caused my wife and I to lower our heads in shameful embarrassment. Whilst in this mortified position, Keith stands up turns to the congregation and speaks at the top of his voice “Excuse me everybody” My wife and I could have died. Now we look back in time and thank God for our perfectly innocent, loving adult son who will mentally remain a child for the rest of his loving life. |
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