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Lenten Penance
Topic Started: Tuesday, 17. February 2009, 00:19 (499 Views)
Gerard

Well, I am still going to raise my hanmds in horror at any suggestion of inflicting pain on oneself never mind severe stuff.

Jesus said heal, He didnt say inflict pain.

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It doesn't have to be about inflicting pain, mild discomfort is mortifying enough!
There are many ways one can mortify desires/appetites. For instance, denying ourselves any foods we enjoy eating, or choosing to eat something we really don't like at all (like celery, for instance ~ yuk!)

Some examples of small mortifications are:
Sleeping without socks (I get very cold feet!)
Not having my hot water bottle/sleeping with the window open in cold weather
Not wearing make-up/jewelry, which I usually do (I find that a hard one)
Praying kneeling on a hard floor, no matter how tired
Getting up an hour earlier than usual to pray
Doing what is asked of one without complaint, grumble or questioning, no matter the cost
Missing out lunch
Only drinking water or giving up sugar in tea/coffee
Deliberately missing your favourite tv/radio programme/film
Only reading devotional books

I could go on, but I'm sure you get the picture!
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Gerard

Nothing severe there so:
Yep, I could go along with that:
Except this one

Only reading devotional books

Which I do for fun :rofl:

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Well yes, reading only devotional books isn't a penance in itself, but resisting the temptation to pick up a magazine often is!

Another couple of good ones are:
To wash only in cold water
To sit without letting ones back touch the back of a chair (try it!)

I would never presume to suggest the greater mortifications on a forum, as they can be practised unwisely :wink:
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Gerard

I'm still not completely convinced that cold feet might not lead to chillblains or that bad posture lead to severe backache but we are near enough agreement to let it go. However, I will respond to this

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Another thing that I have wondered is how we have progressed from severe and penitential lifestyle to making Lenten resolutions such as "spending more time in the garden" or "eating more fruit"...these are things I have read, not made up. I suspect we have lost much of the true Lenten spirit since Vatican II.


In our 24/7 work-obsessed culture I can imagine "spending more time in the garden" as being the first step on a road away from work as idol for some people. And "eating more fruit" seems remarkably similar to your own "eating" "celery" ;) , and I think V2 was the best thing since St Francis of Assisi.

Gerry
Edited by Gerard, Sunday, 1. March 2009, 16:29.
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This is definitely worth reading in regard to Lenten penance, and penance in general: The Purpose of Christian Mortification by Cardinal Mercier

These are a little less severe, from Domestic Church
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Derekap

When I was a boy I did sleep with the bedroom open until one morning the eiderdown was covered with melted snow. (I was hot in those days, not cool). In any case surely if you are trying to heat the house economically and environmently it would be wrong to have the windows open in cold weather.
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When I was a boy I did sleep with the bedroom open until one morning the eiderdown was covered with melted snow. (I was hot in those days, not cool). In any case surely if you are trying to heat the house economically and environmently it would be wrong to have the windows open in cold weather.
I never heat my bedroom, Derek, which actually saves us money! If the door is closed, it doesn't affect the rest of the house. I am blessed in that my husband likes fresh air, whereas for me, it is a discomfort, as I like to be as warm as possible!
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Friday, 27. February 2009, 14:52
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Another thing that I have wondered is how we have progressed from severe and penitential lifestyle to making Lenten resolutions such as "spending more time in the garden" or "eating more fruit"...these are things I have read, not made up. I suspect we have lost much of the true Lenten spirit since Vatican II.[/small]

Have you actually met anbody who makes Lenten resolutions such as "spending more time in the garden" or "eating more fruit"? I haven't, and I have never seen any indication that Catholics treat Lent differently now from the way we did before the Second Vatican Council. Some people go to Mass more often, some give up a treat, some give more alms to the poor and sick.
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Yes, I have ~ those two things exactly, which is why I posted it! (Posted by 2 people I know on another forum). But I fear I may have been judgemental in doing so, for which I am sorry. They must have their reasons :bl:

I guess because of my own attitude towards penance, I wanted more than my Priest saying "we don't do that now" in reference to stricter fasts and other physical mortifications, but that's my peculiarity!
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This article explains better than I can what I was trying to say very clumsily :bl:

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LENT - A Season of Penance by Fr. William K. Delaney, S.J.

Many of us remember the days before Vatican II when penance was an ordinary part of the Church life. Friday was a day of abstinence from meat throughout the year, and the entire period of Lent was a strictly observed time of fasting. Now only Ash Wednesday and Good Friday remain fast days for the whole Church, and abstinence from meat is required only for the Fridays in Lent.Though the regulations concerning penance have changed, this does not mean that the Christian no longer is obliged to do penance. Rather, the Church desires that the people of God now take the initiative in responding to theLord’s call to penance. The disciples of John asked Jesus about His own disciples’ practice of penance.“When Jesus had crossed over to the territory of the Gerasenes, John’sdisciples came to him with the objection, ‘Why is it that while we and the Pharisees fast, your disciple do not?’ Jesus said to them: ‘How can wedding guests go in mourning so long as the groom is with them? When the day comes that the groom is taken away, then they will fast.’” (Mt.9:14-15) Jesus clearly indicated that there is a time for fasting and a time for feasting. In the Church’s liturgical year the great time of celebration is the Easter season,as we share in Christ’s triumph over death. Lent is the principal time for fasting, as we recall and share in the labor and sacrifice our salvation cost the Lord.

Ignatius of Loyola, in his Spiritual Exercises, gives three reasons why we do penance. The first reason is to make some satisfaction for past sins. They can be our own sins, as is the case when we do our penance assigned in the Sacrament of Reconciliation. They can be the sins of our nation. We do this for example, when we set aside a day of prayer and fasting in reparation for the sins of abortion committed in our Country. The sins can also be those of other individuals and groups upon whom we wish to call down God’s mercy. Ignatius’ second reason is to overcome and conquer the sinful tendencies in ourselves and lessen our self-centeredness. In this case, the penance is most effective if it is tailored to the sinful tendencies we are trying to conquer. The tradition of the Church has long recommended bodily penances, such as fasting, for sins of the flesh. This includes self-indulgence and lack ofdiscipline in a wide variety of contexts. A few of the many possible areas would be sex, eating, drinking, laziness, and venting anger. On the other hand, if our sinful tendency is more in the area of greed and lack of generosity then almsgiving-giving of our time, attention or material resources-would be more appropriate penitential practice. Ignatius’ third reason for penance is to strengthen our prayer if we are seeking a particular grace from God. Often our prayer is half-hearted. Our desire for God’s grace can be rather minimal - if we don’t receive it, it doesn’t really matter. When we put our body behind our prayer through fasting or some other appropriate penance we say, both to ourselves and to the Lord, that we are serious about our prayer. Whole-heartedness in our prayer opens us to receive the gifts God wants to give us.

It is important to realize that fasting and other penitential practice are not for our glory. We don’t fast to prove that we are spiritual and holy people.We fast, rather, because we are weak and sinful and in need of God’s mercy. I have found it helpful to seek the Lord in prayer for His guidance when considering what sort of Lenten penance I will do or whenever else I wish to do penance. Often the penance I finally choose, when I do choose one, is much easier than the one I had in mind previously, but it is also exactly what I need. As we approach Lent the prophet Isaiah (Is. 58) reminds us that the call to penance is a call to conversion of heart. Penance is the means we use, not the goal. When we come before the Lord to do penance, He does not ask us how difficult our penance will be. Rather, He asks us whether we are repentant, expressing our repentance with deeds reflecting a conversion of heart. It is this call to conversion of heart that we hear during Lent. Penance is simply a road to it. Let us walk the road with the goal clearly before our eyes. In this way we will be ready to meet the Lord at Easter.

Edited by Mrs.Pogle, Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 20:04.
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Gerard

Mrs p

I think I could have used that quote you have just posted to back up the arguments I was putting forward myself.

However, we did reach some sort of agreement before and I would ask whether you agree that anything more severe than those mild exampes should only be undertaken in consutation with a good spiritual director?

Gerry
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Mrs p

I think I could have used that quote you have just posted to back up the arguments I was putting forward myself.

However, we did reach some sort of agreement before and I would ask whether you agree that anything more severe than those mild exampes should only be undertaken in consutation with a good spiritual director?

Gerry
I would say that it is advisable to have an SD in these matters, Gerry ~ but also that ones who are open to more severe penances are hard to find!

In times past, it would not have been unusual to wear a hair shirt, or use a discipline for example...we all know that St. Thomas Moore did such things (as did a host of others, Saints or not), and Katherine of Aragon (who should be a Saint in my opinion!) wore a rough serge Nun's habit under her finery. Indeed the book I am reading by Father Faber, Growth in Holiness (1859) recommends such things highly for all Catholics. With the advent of modern psychology, such practises were seen as a *sign* of hysteria or psychological disturbance. Fasting became anorexia, corporal mortification became self-harm, when there is a vast difference between the two things, and they are done for entirely different purposes. Although there are definitely both religious Orders and lay persons who still practise penance in similar ways, they are the exception, and I just wonder if we have lost something valuable...
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The entire period of Lent never was a strictly observed time of fasting. We had to abstain from eating meat on Wednesdays and Fridays in Lent, and fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday.
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