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| Topic Started: Tuesday, 17. February 2009, 00:19 (499 Views) | |
| Gerard | Friday, 27. February 2009, 15:24 Post #16 |
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Well, I am still going to raise my hanmds in horror at any suggestion of inflicting pain on oneself never mind severe stuff. Jesus said heal, He didnt say inflict pain. Gerry |
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| Mrs.Pogle | Friday, 27. February 2009, 17:21 Post #17 |
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It doesn't have to be about inflicting pain, mild discomfort is mortifying enough! There are many ways one can mortify desires/appetites. For instance, denying ourselves any foods we enjoy eating, or choosing to eat something we really don't like at all (like celery, for instance ~ yuk!) Some examples of small mortifications are: Sleeping without socks (I get very cold feet!) Not having my hot water bottle/sleeping with the window open in cold weather Not wearing make-up/jewelry, which I usually do (I find that a hard one) Praying kneeling on a hard floor, no matter how tired Getting up an hour earlier than usual to pray Doing what is asked of one without complaint, grumble or questioning, no matter the cost Missing out lunch Only drinking water or giving up sugar in tea/coffee Deliberately missing your favourite tv/radio programme/film Only reading devotional books I could go on, but I'm sure you get the picture! |
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| Gerard | Sunday, 1. March 2009, 13:35 Post #18 |
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Nothing severe there so: Yep, I could go along with that: Except this one Only reading devotional books Which I do for fun Gerry |
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| Mrs.Pogle | Sunday, 1. March 2009, 15:38 Post #19 |
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Well yes, reading only devotional books isn't a penance in itself, but resisting the temptation to pick up a magazine often is! Another couple of good ones are: To wash only in cold water To sit without letting ones back touch the back of a chair (try it!) I would never presume to suggest the greater mortifications on a forum, as they can be practised unwisely
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| Gerard | Sunday, 1. March 2009, 16:20 Post #20 |
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I'm still not completely convinced that cold feet might not lead to chillblains or that bad posture lead to severe backache but we are near enough agreement to let it go. However, I will respond to this
In our 24/7 work-obsessed culture I can imagine "spending more time in the garden" as being the first step on a road away from work as idol for some people. And "eating more fruit" seems remarkably similar to your own "eating" "celery" , and I think V2 was the best thing since St Francis of Assisi.Gerry Edited by Gerard, Sunday, 1. March 2009, 16:29.
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| Mrs.Pogle | Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 12:35 Post #21 |
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This is definitely worth reading in regard to Lenten penance, and penance in general: The Purpose of Christian Mortification by Cardinal Mercier These are a little less severe, from Domestic Church Edited by Mrs.Pogle, Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 13:46.
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| Georgina | Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 14:04 Post #22 |
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Today I will say a prayer for the salvation of every person I see. |
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| Derekap | Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 17:05 Post #23 |
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When I was a boy I did sleep with the bedroom open until one morning the eiderdown was covered with melted snow. (I was hot in those days, not cool). In any case surely if you are trying to heat the house economically and environmently it would be wrong to have the windows open in cold weather. |
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| Mrs.Pogle | Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 17:48 Post #24 |
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I never heat my bedroom, Derek, which actually saves us money! If the door is closed, it doesn't affect the rest of the house. I am blessed in that my husband likes fresh air, whereas for me, it is a discomfort, as I like to be as warm as possible! Edited by Mrs.Pogle, Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 17:49.
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| Rose of York | Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 19:10 Post #25 |
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| Mrs.Pogle | Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 19:36 Post #26 |
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Yes, I have ~ those two things exactly, which is why I posted it! (Posted by 2 people I know on another forum). But I fear I may have been judgemental in doing so, for which I am sorry. They must have their reasons I guess because of my own attitude towards penance, I wanted more than my Priest saying "we don't do that now" in reference to stricter fasts and other physical mortifications, but that's my peculiarity! Edited by Mrs.Pogle, Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 19:45.
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| Mrs.Pogle | Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 20:03 Post #27 |
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This article explains better than I can what I was trying to say very clumsily
Edited by Mrs.Pogle, Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 20:04.
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| Gerard | Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 20:43 Post #28 |
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Mrs p I think I could have used that quote you have just posted to back up the arguments I was putting forward myself. However, we did reach some sort of agreement before and I would ask whether you agree that anything more severe than those mild exampes should only be undertaken in consutation with a good spiritual director? Gerry |
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| Mrs.Pogle | Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 22:32 Post #29 |
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I would say that it is advisable to have an SD in these matters, Gerry ~ but also that ones who are open to more severe penances are hard to find! In times past, it would not have been unusual to wear a hair shirt, or use a discipline for example...we all know that St. Thomas Moore did such things (as did a host of others, Saints or not), and Katherine of Aragon (who should be a Saint in my opinion!) wore a rough serge Nun's habit under her finery. Indeed the book I am reading by Father Faber, Growth in Holiness (1859) recommends such things highly for all Catholics. With the advent of modern psychology, such practises were seen as a *sign* of hysteria or psychological disturbance. Fasting became anorexia, corporal mortification became self-harm, when there is a vast difference between the two things, and they are done for entirely different purposes. Although there are definitely both religious Orders and lay persons who still practise penance in similar ways, they are the exception, and I just wonder if we have lost something valuable... Edited by Mrs.Pogle, Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 22:54.
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| Rose of York | Wednesday, 4. March 2009, 22:36 Post #30 |
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The entire period of Lent never was a strictly observed time of fasting. We had to abstain from eating meat on Wednesdays and Fridays in Lent, and fast on Ash Wednesday and Good Friday. |
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, and I think V2 was the best thing since St Francis of Assisi.


4:45 PM Nov 23