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Why Did All Those People Leave?
Topic Started: Thursday, 13. September 2007, 12:39 (1,831 Views)
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If we want to get people back we must identify and cure the cause of their departure.
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Colin2000

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Sep 13 2007, 12:39 PM
If we want to get people back we must identify and cure the cause of their departure.

Hi Rose,

Whilst the regulars consider how they can put it. Can I ask some questions as a stranger here?

1. The Moderators, they appear to be covering well is this always the case?

2. How open minded are your team Rose and how can you answer this and live I wonder?

3. After looking inward at yourselves and comments possibly here or by PM., characteristics and elements of the problem and the Boards system application, "Does any of this cause silence or limitation in posting usually?"

As one in 'ignorance is bliss' here I feel I can start the ball rolling as someone without an axe to grind I hope!

"I didn't mention Protestant once now did I!"

Yours in His Everlovingtenderkindness or something like that,

Colin.

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Mrs Jamie

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Sep 13 2007, 12:39 PM
If we want to get people back we must identify and cure the cause of their departure.

I think I pretty much covered all the reasons why people may have left on the other thread Rose - and indeed as I said there my list more or less coincided with the Cardinal's (no conferring....)

But anyone with two minutes and half a brain would have come up with much the same list I'm sure.

Personally I'd like the Cardinal to stop making lists of reasons for leaving, and start a lists of reasons for coming back - not including keeping Catholic coffers full, Catholic schools open and keeping the bishops' retirement fund filled.....

I wonder if the UK Church authorities are more anxious about reporting to Rome on the latest catastrophic Catholic indicators of baptisms, marriages, confirmations and Mass attendance than anything else - and I shouldn't think any of the hierarchy are much looking forward to their next performance appraisal.

Sorry if I sound cynical but I think it is high time to stop taking surveys, conducting workshops and having academic think tanks, and start seeking out people where they actually are in their lives, and not where - in some theoretical paradise on earth - we'd like them to be.

Who was it said something about coming for sinners.......????
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Sep 13 2007, 01:39 PM
If we want to get people back we must identify and cure the cause of their departure.

That depends what caused their departure.

If they departed because the Church maintained Her moral teachings on contraception and the like, then there's no curing needed.

The Church cannot change Her teachings just because we find some of them hard.

If they departed because the Church appeared to change Her teachings and disciplines, then the cure is to revert to type.

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Gerard

Well,

I think they (the dormant catholics in the UK) have been successfully evangelised by the world. I bet you could plot a graph of increasing wealth against decreasing participation and find a close correlation.

If you know your OT you will see it played out repeatedly there for our education and warning. As wealth and comfort increase so peoples reliance on themselves rather than God increases up to the point where God is squezed out entirely. The Temple was left desolate and filled with idols several times in OT history. God does not leave the nation like that. He brings them back to their senses via disasters. He might do that to us. Its actually better for us in the long term.

Is there an alternative ? Yes, see the thread on Acts just now (13/09/07) the answer is there. We need to give up our money. Use it to build up the church and the community. Give it to people who need it in this country and others. You dont see how that can work? Read the Gospel. Jesus had a lot to say about money - and it wasnt complimentary.

Gerry
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Sep 13 2007, 04:50 PM
Well,

I think they (the dormant catholics in the UK) have been successfully evangelised by the world. I bet you could plot a graph of increasing wealth against decreasing participation and find a close correlation.

If you know your OT you will see it played out repeatedly there for our education and warning. As wealth and comfort increase so peoples reliance on themselves rather than God increases up to the point where God is squezed out entirely. The Temple was left desolate and filled with idols several times in OT history. God does not leave the nation like that. He brings them back to their senses via disasters. He might do that to us. Its actually better for us in the long term.

Is there an alternative ? Yes, see the thread on Acts just now (13/09/07) the answer is there. We need to give up our money. Use it to build up the church and the community. Give it to people who need it in this country and others. You dont see how that can work? Read the Gospel. Jesus had a lot to say about money - and it wasnt complimentary.

I'm inclined to agree, though there's a paradox there.

Shouldn't we be taking money off people if it's causing them to abandon the faith?

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Sep 13 2007, 02:12 PM


As one in 'ignorance is bliss' here I feel I can start the ball rolling as someone without an axe to grind I hope!

"I didn't mention Protestant once now did I!"

Yours in His Everlovingtenderkindness or something like that,

Colin.

Colin, we all know you are Anglo Catholic. No problem.

If you want to get that ball rolling, go ahead. Roll it!

You might well have some insight into the problem of why people have left, and suggestions as to how we can encourage their return, then keep them once they have come back.
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During a visit to Australia in July,Franciscan Archbishop Charles Chaput of Denver gave two speeches which relate to evangelisation, one to the general public Renewing the Church, converting the world
Whilst not directly relating to dormant Catholics, he makes these comments:
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What's the Church for? To continue Christ's mission on earth, the mission of his Incarnation. The mission
of love. We're here to proclaim God's love and the good news of Jesus Christ to the ends of the
earth. We're here to make disciples of all nations.
In all this, we have Christ's promise that he will be with us until the end of the age. And he is. Through
the Holy Spirit that guards the truth of what the Church teaches. Through the Eucharist and sacraments
that sustain and sanctify us on our journey in this world.
A lot of people don't "get" these connections between the divine and the human, the invisible and the
visible, the spiritual and the material. And that leads to a lot of problems. We hear people all the time
saying they're upset with "the Church." Or that "the Church" has let them down. Or that "the Church"
has distorted Christ's message and needs to be reformed.
I agree with these people. I'm not satisfied with the Church either. I want the Church to be more holy.
I want the Church to purge all the corrupting influences of sin, temptation, and worldliness. I want to
the Church to be fearless in love, courageous in confronting evil, and eloquent in bearing witness to the
Gospel in a culture of greed and despair.
But what those people are really complaining about is the clergy. Their definition of "the Church"
includes only the visible leadership of the Church; the pope, the cardinals, the archbishops and bishops,
the priests. That's the Church they want to criticize, shake up and turn around.
I'm glad they hold bishops and priests, including me, to high standards. We should be leading holy lives
that are an example for the Church. I only wish these people would remember that the Church includes
them, too. When Christ said, "Be perfect as our Father in heaven is perfect," he wasn't talking only
about the clergy. When he said, "Go and preach the Gospel to all nations," he wasn't talking only about
religious professionals. The demands of holiness and radical discipleship apply to every one of us. No
excuses. No exceptions.
One of my inspirations was the French Catholic writer, Georges Bernanos. He's most famous for a great
novel that I strongly recommend to you, The Diary of a Country Priest.
Bernanos was a true prophet of the last century. One of the many things he got right was his thinking
about the Church and what it means to be Catholic. He knew the Church in this world was never meant
to be a society of the perfect.
He wrote: "The visible Church is not only the ecclesiastical hierarchy. She is you, she is me -- which
means the Church is not always a pleasant thing. At times it's even been a very unpleasant thing to
have to look at the Church up close."

I thought the entire speech was brilliant and well worth reading at the link above

The other was to the National Conference of the Australian Confraternity of Catholic Clergy "The men he intended"
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I want to briefly sketch for you the picture of an anonymous culture. But everything I'm about to tell
you comes from the factual record.
This society is advanced in the sciences and the arts. It has a complex economy and a strong military.
It includes many different religions, although religion tends to be a private affair or a matter of civic
ceremony.
This particular society also has big problems. Among them is that fertility rates remain below replacement
levels. There aren't enough children being born to replace the current adult population and to do
the work needed to keep society going. The government offers incentives to encourage people to have
more babies. But nothing seems to work.
Promiscuity is common and accepted. So are bisexuality, and hom osex uality. So is prostitution. Birth
control and abortion are legal, widely practiced, and justified by society's leading intellectuals.
Every now and then, a lawmaker introduces a measure to promote marriage, arguing that the health
and future of society depend on stable families. These measures typically go nowhere.
Ok. What society am I talking about? My own country, of course, would broadly fit this description.
Yours would, too. But I'm not talking about us.
I've just outlined the conditions of the Mediterranean world at the time of Christ. We tend to idealize
the ancients, to look back at Greece and Rome as an age of extraordinary achievements. And of course,
it was. But it had another side as well.
We don't usually think of Plato and Aristotle endorsing abortion or infanticide as state policy. But they
did. Hippocrates, the great medical pioneer, also famously created an abortion kit that involved sharp
blades for cutting up the fetus and a hook for ripping it from the womb. We rarely connect that with
his Hippocratic Oath. But some years ago, archeologists discovered the remains of what appeared to
be a Roman-era abortion or infanticide "clinic." It was a sewer filled with the bones of more than 100
infants.
If you want some useful winter reading, pick up a little book written about 10 years ago, The Rise of
Christianity by Rodney Stark. You'll find all of this history and more.

Again, a brilliant speech and quite relevant to this discussion.

KatyA
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Gerard

Clare,

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Shouldn't we be taking money off people if it's causing them to abandon the faith?


Does that reveal a certain mindset ?

No we definitly should not be taking money off people. We should be trying to get them to want to give money away.

I mentioned building up the community before I mentioned giving money to people who needed it. Note, needed.

To their credit the Bishops did launch the "live simply" initiative but we need that x 1,000

Gerry
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Sep 13 2007, 06:38 PM
Clare,

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Shouldn't we be taking money off people if it's causing them to abandon the faith?


Does that reveal a certain mindset ?

Not mine. I just thought it was one way of interpreting what you'd said! It's not what I think.

It's just an anomaly/paradox. When people live comfortably, they drift away from the faith. So why help others live comfortably?!

You see what I mean!

And I'm not a Marxist!

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KatyA
Sep 13 2007, 05:24 PM
During a visit to Australia in July,Franciscan Archbishop Charles Chaput of Denver gave two speeches which relate to evangelisation, one to the general public Renewing the Church, converting the world
Whilst not directly relating to dormant Catholics, he makes these comments:
Quote:
 
We hear people all the time saying they're upset with "the Church." Or that "the Church" has let them down. Or that "the Church" has distorted Christ's message and needs to be reformed.I agree with these people. I'm not satisfied with the Church either. I want the Church to be more holy.  I want the Church to purge all the corrupting influences of sin, temptation, and worldliness. I want to the Church to be fearless in love, courageous in confronting evil, and eloquent in bearing witness to the Gospel in a culture of greed and despair.

But what those people are really complaining about is the clergy. Their definition of "the Church" includes only the visible leadership of the Church; the pope, the cardinals, the archbishops and bishops, the priests. That's the Church they want to criticize, shake up and turn around.

I'm glad they hold bishops and priests, including me, to high standards. We should be leading holy lives that are an example for the Church. I only wish these people would remember that the Church includes them, too. When Christ said, "Be perfect as our Father in heaven is perfect," he wasn't talking only
about the clergy. When he said, "Go and preach the Gospel to all nations," he wasn't talking only about religious professionals. The demands of holiness and radical discipleship apply to every one of us. No excuses. No exceptions.

Again, a brilliant speech and quite relevant to this discussion.

KatyA

I would like to pick up on Archbishop Charles Chaput 's comment about people complaining they are upset with "the Church. Or that "the Church" has let them down.

Plenty of Catholics have told me they left because the Church let them down in an hour of need. I've been in that situation, totally let down, never by The Church, but by individuals.

People who feel the need of a personal visit from the priest, for whatever reason, do feel badly let down when they are asked if it can wait a week. The priest may be genuinely busy but - I think it was Mrs Jamie who mentioned the conferences and seminars. Our bishops need to evaluate the current situation, prioritise needs, and do their best (in a difficult situation) to ensure that priests are available, to be pastors to their people. By people I mean, in this context, individuals.
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Sep 13 2007, 04:03 PM
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Sep 13 2007, 02:12 PM


As one in 'ignorance is bliss' here I feel I can start the ball rolling as someone without an axe to grind I hope!

"I didn't mention Protestant once now did I!"

Yours in His Everlovingtenderkindness or something like that,

Colin.

Colin, we all know you are Anglo Catholic. No problem.

If you want to get that ball rolling, go ahead. Roll it!

You might well have some insight into the problem of why people have left, and suggestions as to how we can encourage their return, then keep them once they have come back.

Hi All,

To roll the ball I would start at the end of Matthew,

"Now the eleven disciples went to Galilee,
to the mountain to which Jesus had directed them.
17.
And when they saw him they worshipped him,
but some doubted.
18.
And Jesus came and said to them,
"All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me.
19.
Go therefore and make disciples of all nations,
baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit,
20.
teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you.
And behold, I am with you always,
to the end of the age."
[Jesus, Matthew, Matthew.28:16-20. ESV. ].

So that is what the Eleven Disciples/Apostles were told to do.
"How can we apply it in our lives and does it apply to us as well as Peter and the rest as time moves on?"

Well in 17v. they saw Him and worshipped Him!
"Is the people us in the Church worshipping Him shall we say in The Mass and what do we come out through the Church doors carrying afterwards?"

In 18v. all authority is given to Him.
"Does that give us the confidence to witness for Him?"

In 19v. Make disciples of all nations! Baptism is for the Priests after the bringing of the lost sheep in to the fold of the Church!
"Well are we and what are we telling the people we meet in the street and public place?" Ask believe and be saved! Then Trinity: What our LORD has revealed to us of Himself!!! .... He is Father, Son and Holy Ghost.

"Worship Father through the Son Jesus and expect to receive the personal Friendship of the HolyGhost!"

In 20v. Teach them to observe all that I have commanded you! He has, really?

After you have got them into your company/friendship should we pass them down the line to Mother Church or start where we are at!
After all He is with us until the end of the age!

So why are we not doing it?

There could be many reasons. One could be because up to this generation the new recruits came in your case out of the Catholic Christian Family!

Then we had two world wars and what family?

An aside here, My family grew up and went to the LORD in a family group! An extended family of grannies and brothers and sisters plus aunties and uncles and their children all or most living locally!

Now we have single child families and single parent excuses for a family!

I was an assistant youth leader in my church in the early 1960's. two hundred or more in the youth clubs fellowships and what-have-you connected to my church one week. The next week non. They were all accepted for University! They never came back except to visit their ageing parents and families!

What has taken their place? With the destruction of the Sabbeth observance. TV. nearly as evil as this computer! What are we going to put in it's place on the main day of rest, Tesco? The place of Church and family is?

So I must leave this one with a question rather than an answer!

Yours in His Name,

Colin.

PS. How about each local Church ask the HolyGhost, He should know.

Every Church revival that I have study for knowledge of the HolyGhost amongst men has always started with a solid lengthy pray in! In the Prayer group we might find a not so new answer?

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Colin2000

A PS.,

Just caught sight of the one on Pastoral care. You have to make a choice of man hours with your Priest. A man to go around how many church members?

If you want a full time Pastor who celebrates Mass funerals and the rest of the Church life under that Priest?

I have three priests three readers and a gaggle of lay people taking out sick communion plus one full time lay diocesan worker and a youth leader on the way?

This reminds me of my personal contact with your church life in the past. It was not unknown for your Church to have four Priests in the local is it Presbytery!

One was the church organists and choir master. One took the Mass and was the manager of the Parish. Another visited the sick and kept you in order. And if the machine was working properly the other was the youth leader.

And then there was one??? .... Are we drifting perhaps toward the Dutch experience to replace the deficiency?

Colin.
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Where have the congregations gone ?

That's a deep one.

Most of us on this forum are Golden Oldies. We can remember when the Churches were packed out - solid. There was a squad of 'men at the back' (the knights etc.) who would be shepherding people from the pack to squeeze onto the pews and to stand along every inch of space in the side aisles. For the twelve mass particularly the steps and the pavement were packed. The priests were for ever telling of the need to keep the road clear.

And I'd say that was a common situation in England's inner-cities.

We had Prayers for the Conversion of England on Sunday evenings once a month.

It was predicted on all sides that the RCs would soon be overtaking the CofE as the majority church in the UK. The Strict Protestants were issuing grim predictions of that same event. RCs dominated the inner-cities. the non-conformists took second place, and the CofE churches were empty.

When I was a soldier in foreign lands lorries were sometimes provided for the (very few) churchgoers. The Catholics had one or two lorries, the CofEs and the non-conformists usually went to the same church.

It was a London battalion. There were more churchgoing catholics from our company than the protestants could muster from the entire battalion. And we were not a particularly catholic (ie Irish) company. (The paddies usually went to Support Company, but they were rarely mass-goers).


What happened ? What went wrong ?

I'd say the fight went out of us.
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Michael

i still believe that a co-ordinated effort with the bishops priests and deacons chapping on the doors of those who have stopped attending mass would yield results, just target one area in one day each month, just reaching out to the catholic community would show that the church is not a faceless uncaring or aloof organisation, time our clergy rediscovered the missionary zeal that priests of old had
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