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| Lent - Spiritual Spring Cleaning Time; reading | |
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| Topic Started: Thursday, 22. February 2007, 23:32 (439 Views) | |
| James | Thursday, 22. February 2007, 23:32 Post #1 |
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Came across a site on the internet and I thought this appropriate for a meditation. Hope you don't mind me posting them.! James
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| Rose of York | Friday, 23. February 2007, 00:04 Post #2 |
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James, post any quotes, so long as you give a link and acknowledge the author. Thanks for starting this Lenten meditation thread. |
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| Rose of York | Friday, 23. February 2007, 20:31 Post #3 |
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Is it not also to easy too go to a Service of Reconciliation and say "that's it, done"? Nobody in their right minds spring cleans once a year, and lets the muck pile up for another twelve months. Nobody in their rights minds cleans up once a week, fortnight or month. We all need to do a bit of spiritual housework. The days have gone when parishes had "Confessions Saturday 10 - 11, 6 - 7.30 and after Monday Novena and Thursday Benediction." Rural parishes have "Confessions after Mass, if requested" and all the busy people collar Father about important matters. There are times when we are "on our own", no, not really, we always have God. Can we afford to leave this stuff until the opportunity for sacramental confession arises? Yes, I am being serious - opportunity. If we do things wrong, or have bad thoughts, on Tuesday this week, can we leave the repentance until a week on Saturday? I heartily recommend setting aside a few minutes, outdoors in God's fresh air, or in the garden shed, kitchen, on a bus, anywhere at all, and giving prayerful thought to what is going on in our inner selves. Tell God how you feel about yourself, go home and be good. Confess sacramentally when you can. |
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| James | Friday, 23. February 2007, 20:33 Post #4 |
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Normally with meditations, I just read them - but perhaps ,during this season of lent ,we may also be able to share some helpful experiences or thoughts that give "pause for thought". I think it would be most appropriate. What do you think ? God Bless. |
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| James | Friday, 23. February 2007, 20:45 Post #5 |
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For several years now, I have given up drinking alcohol for lent , mainly as an excercise at a time appropriate to see who was in charge here - me or the drink.!! However, after reading this I am aware this year of filling the vacuum. I can pass a pub and not go in and sometimes miss good conversation with friends because I do not go in.! Am I replacing the vacuum with reading good books or going on days out or visiting people to compensate for the spring cleaning that leaves an empty room waiting to be filled by - as Jesus said - demons worse than those that were there before ! |
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| Emee | Friday, 23. February 2007, 20:55 Post #6 |
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Hi James Would you be able to go into the pub and order a non-alcoholic drink?? Just a thought... That way you would still be able to keep up your Lenten observance and not miss out on conversations with your friends... God Bless you Emee |
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| James | Friday, 23. February 2007, 21:44 Post #7 |
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Hi Emee, Give it a few days and yes. I did last year and once everyone gets used to it then they won't order anything other. Actually, they are all non-catholics and it's surprising how much they are aware of lent. I could say "I'm on tablets " but I always say " I'm having a go at knocking the drink on the head for lent but will have to see how it goes ". I get encouragement and nobody seems to think me strange. One of the others is hoping to stop smoking and using the lentan days as his introduction for added help. Thank you James |
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| nelly k | Friday, 23. February 2007, 22:13 Post #8 |
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Many thanks for that James, Ive had my eyes open with the reading you have given. I had never thought of Lent as postive, always as suffering and dare I say a sort of drugery, I think that reading is a realy helpfull approach... nelly |
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| Derekap | Saturday, 24. February 2007, 19:53 Post #9 |
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I would say that, in my (I hope) humble opinion James could continue to visit the pub and spend some time chatting with his friends but consume only non-alcoholic drinks. The latter makes the point of observing Lent. I get the impression the topics of conversation must be interesting and constructive and he learns from them and they learn from him. James, without apparently preaching, is probably expressing some good opinions when the occasion arises. Absence from the pub means his friends will be denied his wisdom. |
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| Rose of York | Saturday, 24. February 2007, 20:38 Post #10 |
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They will also miss out on the Christian witness of a man who says "no thanks, I'm abstaining from alcohol for Lent." Who knows where that may lead? |
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| James | Friday, 30. March 2007, 20:48 Post #11 |
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Bye the bye, Rose. I'm still off it for lent and manage to socalise as well. Bar staff didn't think I would do it - neither did I. The return is I'm feeling good and looking forward to Easter Sunday - in strict moderation of course !! |
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| Emee | Saturday, 31. March 2007, 08:23 Post #12 |
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Well done James! I heartily congratulate you!! Giving up chocolate these past weeks has had me "climbing up the wall" at times. However, likewise thanks to God I have managed it and am looking forward to my egg (after Mass) on Easter Sunday. |
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| James | Saturday, 31. March 2007, 14:05 Post #13 |
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WELL DONE Emee. |
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| Josephine | Monday, 2. April 2007, 11:01 Post #14 |
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More power to your elbow, James! I gave don't go to the pub but I do like a glass of wine. I thought about giving it up last Lent but weakened and did something else. This year I was more determined and have taken the plunge. I DID have one glass on Laetare Sunday (it was also Mothering Sunday!). I thought a small relaxation was allowed on that day - pink vestments, etc, you know but I came in for so much teasing from my dear family that now I rather wish I hadn't ( relaxed, I mean). Can someone please tell me - is a slight relaxation allowed on Laetare Sunday or should we just keep going all through Lent ? Josephine |
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| KatyA | Monday, 2. April 2007, 11:13 Post #15 |
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I stand to be corrected, but I'm sure I have read that, technically, Sundays are not part of Lent because every Sunday is a celebration. There are forty days in Lent excluding Sundays. Not withstanding that, Laetare Sunday is definitely a celebration so I'm sure you're OK Josephine :D KatyA |
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